cant let my feelings go, although I have told her how I feel I have kept away only contacting through email and being friendly, I even told her that I am happy for her and her new bf. I am happy if she is but it hurts so much.
Please help!
2007-01-17 02:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by Mark C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I tell you a trick up my sleeve that works with 99% women, get yourself back on track; find true love and still be good mates with your ex; nothing can kill an ex on the inside better than knowing her man is happy but still looks out for her; trust me they go nuts and want you back even more; because that shows you are a true gentleman.
2007-01-17 02:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, there's not much more I can say.
I've been there and it just takes time, sometimes a lot of time, to get over someone. But I promise you it will happen eventually. I know it can be nearly impossible but it is best to have as much as a clean break from her as you can while your feelings are still raw ... and this can take take months.
And the only way to speed up getting over someone is to start to have feelings for someone else. Which also probably seems impossible right now. But just try and force yourself to go out with your friends and meet you new friends and smile as much as you can (even if only once or twice a month), it'll be proper hard work like but it will help it along. And if you are still in that place where at the end of the day you only really want her back, remember that if there is any chance of that at all, it will be much more likely if you try to be a happy, busy, interesting person and at least look like you are moving on.
2007-01-17 02:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee it's time that u move on. She is living her life and really doesn't care how u feel because she has a new b/f so what r u crying about. Get up, get dressed and go dancing, find urself a new love. Someone who will love u and take care of u. It's not the end of the world u will probably always love her but it's time 2 move on and let go. Life does not revolve around her u need 2 realize that. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-17 02:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, if u told her how u feel, if u fought for her love and after all she just doesnt react to it, if she just wont get back with u.....there is only one thing that will make u feel better and that is : time. Man, if she is not getting back to u there is nothing u can do, I am sorry to say but the pain just wont go away, it will fade away, time is the only way out, its tough, damn tough but u will have to live it through, sorry mate (just as an advice, if your heart stills with her, dont get involved with anybody else, in the end it will just increase the pain). Cheers!
2007-01-17 02:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lorenzo M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as you have given your emotions some room to respire, inspect something to make you chuckle. It in all probability won't paintings on the start, yet once you shop gazing issues--Monty Python, a sitcom, a trashy fact practice--your techniques will paintings off her. do not attempt to repress something, purely understand which you have given the even its fifteen minutes, come to words with the actuality she's long gone, she's not coming lower back, yet you had some sturdy situations notwithstanding if, then launch the grief lower back into the international. you do not might desire to maintain the discomfort. you could shop the happiness you had, no count number how short, and enable the negativity circulate.
2016-10-07 07:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry dude i have been through the same thing..it takes time i really understand how u fell...but if u still keep loving her then u make things difficult not only for u but for her as well...the best option now is to make friends with someone or be with ur existing freinds...and look for a new girl..this hunt for a new gf will definetly relive u of the pain.its tried and tested dude...and who know ...this new might actually love u as u loved ur ex...and let me tell even if u think ue ex. was miss right but that wud not have been the case ..since she was not someone who cared about ur feelings..."be happy life is too short to remain stuck up at one place....if it remains difficult don' worry it took me 10months...but now i have understood i took a lot of time...i really like my present one now
2007-01-17 02:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Aayush S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go!!fix urself up and get a new gf.if u keep on sulking she aint gonna *** bk.move on wid ur life show her dat u r happy and u never know she might wanna get back together with u later when u show her dat u r doin great and she made a big mistake by breaking up wid u!! i went through the exact same thing.it hurt like hell but i followed dis plan and today she keeps trying to contact me but i dont reply(though i do luv her:-))
2007-01-17 02:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by :-(confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart takes time to heal, I know it sounds cliche. Try to focus on yourself and keep busy, if things work out for you two in the end then you will have spent your time making yourself a better person and partner. Take care of yourself, see friends, read, you will be OK.
2007-01-17 02:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. And I understand your pain completely. Its inescapeable, its everywhere you go, in everything you do. I've been there. But kudos for being in touch with your feelings, they'll guide you toward a better choice next time (hopefully).
Try a night job or a hobby - it sounds lame but it works.
2007-01-17 02:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life wasn't meant to be easy because if we all were in harmony with each other the world would be glowing. you and her were not meant to be, your soul didn't recognize each other so her love faded but yours didn't because it was a almost match. let her be because she must have lost something good in you and will regret it when you are in love with your soul mate and then it will be to late. live life my friend it's to short to dwell on some one who doesn't think twice about you.
2007-01-17 02:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋