I have never been treated as badly as I have in my previous relationship. The man is straight up evil. he is insenstive. He broke up with me via text messaging. When I told him to meet to talk about it he told me that he has nothing to do with me anymore. He could be with anybody else but me. He regret of ever having come to me. He is the one who came to ask me out as he told me he has had a crush on me for two years. I have dated before and never encountered someone like this. He proposed to be the best friend I could ever have. And when i asked him for advice on a situation that I am unfamiliar with, that he knows pretty well. He ignores me. When he texts me he asks me to forward messages to my friends I think he might be looking for somebody else and using me to meet my other girlfriends whom he knows are professionals and well rounded. I have sent him a gift for christmas to wish him a merry christmas and happy new year. He took his gift, never said a thank you.
2007-01-17 02:41:12 · 18 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me he sounds like a jerk. If you're letting him treat you that way then he might never realize it. But that doesn't really matter in the end, becasue you need to leave him alone. He treats you badly, is evil, is insensitive and ignores you. What else do you need? Stop asking his advice or passing on his messages. Stop texting him. Delete his messages when he texts you. Read up on self-respect.
2007-01-17 02:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did he break up with you about? I think maybe he should have had talked to you about your relationship before he made such a bold move. But I remember the same thing that happened to a friend of mine (a girl), she was in a relationship for about 6 months, after 3 months she lost her virginity to him, and after a few months they would keep having sexual relations upon his request (he would whine or something about it). Then after awhile he broke things off with her saying he wanted nothing to with her and he wanted to date someone totally opposite of her. This hurt and devasted my friend, and looked to myself and her friends for support. She was totally took advantage of, and he took her virginity, she loved him a lot and I think he used her for one thing.
Anyways, do forward those text messages to your friends, or let him get close them, he is a jerk and doesn't deserve to have another relationship.
2007-01-17 02:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your point? Some human beings are just plain jerks. And you need to accept some responsibility in this, you picked the jerk. So make a conscious choice and leave the jerk alone and move on with your life. Pay him no attention and allow him to move on and you do the same. Stop giving him so much control, take control of the situation and leave his miserable jerk behind alone. Good luck and God bless****
2007-01-17 02:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey, be glad you're rid of him. I know it's baffling how nasty some men can be. It turns you cold inside and that cold is hard to thaw when the next guy comes. I'm there now, and I'm in my 30s. I'm sorry you had to go through this crap with this guy, but you'll be so much wiser next time.
Chin up.
2007-01-17 02:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS a jerk, and sounds very immature. HOWEVER - you are prolonging the pain by continuing to communicate with him.
STOP IT RIGHT NOW!
Stop calling him, stop texting him, stop sending him presents, for god's sake and stop ASKING HIM FOR ADVICE.
The longer you hang on to this idiot, the longer you are CLOSING YOURSELF OFF to meeting someone who WILL care about you, who WILL be your best friend and someone who can LOVE you. This guy is a user, dump him completely, and you won't regret it.
2007-01-17 02:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share of jerks, but this guy is the jerk of all jerks. Why did he all of a sudden change for the worse? And if your girlfriends date him their losers as well. I hope you find someone thats honest and truly cares for you.
2007-01-17 02:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 08:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you`ve answered your own question..you know the facts, and now realize its time to move forward. Not all men are jerks, but you picked a good one here..move on and learn from it
2007-01-17 02:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by pipebosss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him already, he makes the worst jerks look like angels.
2007-01-17 02:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just really doesn't like you anymore. If it makes you feel so badly, break it off clean. Don't talk to him anymore.
2007-01-17 02:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋