i can't let her go?

Question

i love this girl, we e-mail but she is dating someone and we will likely never see each other again. worst thing is that she kinda use to like me too but i lost that.... i just want a life with her

Answer 1

You have to move on, for both your sakes. She could be in a very good relationship and if you truly love her then you would want to see her happy...even if that means not with you. It seems that you had your chance and if you were meant to be with her, you would be. I know what it feels like to be in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings, and it does hurt. The best thing you can do for you is to just try to move on. It won't be easy, but the sooner you start moving on the sooner you will be over her, even though it feel like you never will. I hope that this has put some light at the end of the tunnel. God bless and good luck.

Answer 2

Have you told her how you feel? If not then you need to get the curage up and tell her how you feel and go from there. You can't tell her in an e-mail or on the phone, you need to tell her to her face and if you truely love her don't give up. My boyfriend now never gave up for 7 months and we are very happy and have been together for 6 months. Yes I played really hard to get but that was because i had to make sure it was the real thing and not just some bullcrap. So just make sure you do what your gut tells you. The worst that would happen is that she isn't into you. So you can take the chance and try-and get heartbroken or not try- and get heartbroken).

Answer 3

You CAN let her go. And you should. MOVE ON. Stop emailing her. Cut off contact with her completely. Hang out with your friends. Get a hobby. Keep yourself busy. Volunteer to do charity work. Join a club. Get some exercise. Eat right. Then when you are ready, go out and find a woman who is better suited for a relationship with you. If you are incapable of doing this, then you should see a therapist. It is normal to feel this way for a short time, but it is NOT normal to stay feeling this way. Good luck!

Answer 4

You are now crossing the line of what is normal and getting way obsessed. She gave you hints, take it. Life offers disappointments. Just lump it and move on..........for your own sake.

You will *definitely* find someone to your liking again and you will settle down. These things happen.

Also, the reason you are getting cold shoulder from her is because she is trying to move away from you after giving you the hint. She just does not want to hurt your feelings so she responds - but deep down, she has found someone else. Can't you accept that?

Learn this: Out of sight is ought of mind.

Answer 5

Am sorry but have to break it to you..............She's just NOT THAT INTO YOU! You love her, but she is dating someone else....she used to like you...but you're likely never to see each other again....and she obviously does not like you anymore in that way!!!! Please get over her!
Its tough to move on when you really like/love a person! - but see you have only two choices - make yourself miserable by e-mailing her and never meeting, or, think that that part of your life's journey is over! Move on - get a hobby, keep busy, learn to love yourself, then I promise, someone who is worthy of your love will fall in love with you!
All the best!

Answer 6

If she is dating someone else then you need to move on. It sucks right now but trust me it will get better. You just need to walk away & understand that this will not work.

Answer 7

As much as you want her if she doesn't want to be with you then it'll never happen. ;o( The more you push the further back she will probably go. Sometimes you've got to let go of someone you love simply because it's not meant to be. If it were meant to be she'd want to be with you just as much as you want to be with her.

Answer 8

if you want a life with her, ask her to marry you. so, you cna have her for rest of your life.

move on. if not, you sucks on someone old. time to meet someone new.

think about what you want or you may be just bored.

Answer 9

Your last chance is to tell her how you feel. THEN BACK OFF!!!! She may let you go, or she may come to you. If you keep stalking, you will never get a chance either way...

Answer 10

Try to start talking to her friends, maybe even date few, maybe even fool around with a few, make her real jealous. After she realizes what she has missed, she'll come running back, they all come running back.