My ex and I broke up 2 1/2 weeks ago.
I found out he gave his ex his new number and kicked him out.
This is a girl he dated when we broke up previously last eyar. He knew how much I did not like her. And I did not want him talking to her.
So I made him leave right then and there. I feel bad now, cause he didn't really have anywhere to go.
He went to his friends and is sleeping on the floor there.
I should have handled ths situation better, but he knew that hurt me and did it anyways.
Is he too proud to ask to come back and live with me?
2007-01-17 02:36:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No maybe your to proud to let him know it was a immature thing to just kick him out because you was hurt or upset....I can see you leaving because of being mad...But to kick him out when you both have the right to be there...And knowing he has no place to go...Lets him know if you really do care about him...
2007-01-17 02:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he's your ex what are you concerned about? If it was your place and you didn't want him there then I guess you had the right to tell him to leave. However now you want to be concerned over him not having a place to live. Why didn't you think about that before you put him out? Are you really concerned about him not having a place to live and supposedly living on someone's floor or are you wondering if he's moved in with this other person? If he's your ex why are you keeping tabs on where he's laying his head at night? If you want him to come back, you will more than likely have to ask him. He's not going to ask you, after all you got upset and threw him out. Right now, in his mind you didn't love him and didn't want him there. If he has to continue sleeping on someone's floor he will do so but he's not going to ask you if he can come back. It has nothing to do with pride. In his mind you got ticked off, threw a fit, put him out over something that he more than likely sees as a minor thing that you blew up. He sees you as controlling and a nut. How old is he for you to be able to tell him who you like and don't like and who you want him talking to or not talking to? Would you want him treating you this way? Sounds to me like you need to move on because there's a trust issue there that you have and can't get beyond. Make everyone happy and find someone that's calling his ex and has not plans on every calling or running into an ex for the rest of his life. Better yet, get pregnant have a son that you can boss around until he gets over enough to tell you to bite him and stop trying to control other peoples children. Grow up before you end up lost and lonely for the rest of your life.
2007-01-17 10:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is not too proud. He is probably waiting for you to get over your attitude. Are you sure that he was wanting to get back together with her, or is in just your own insecurity? Don't feel sorry for him just because he didn't have anywhere to do. That is not the problem here. You need to confront him when you know that YOU can do it civilized and find out why he gat her his new number. Maybe they have been dating behind your back and he wanted to make sure that they kept in touch. Maybe not. Just tell him that you don't want him back, but you want to talk to him about why he betrayed you and did that behind your back without talking to you first. If he can honestly say that it was only to stay as friends and you know that he is telling the truth, then the call in ultimately your. Good luck.
2007-01-17 10:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by protruckdriver71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend was being deceptive by getting his ex girlfriends number even though he knew it would upset you. You reacted as a normal person would when first comfronted being lied to from your partner. Now you miss him and wish he would come back. I feel it is not his pride that is not making him ask to come back, it is that he is sure of your love for him. He probably knows that time will help to cool you down, you will miss him, and then agree to take him back. Ask yourself, has this been the pattern of past conflicts with him? You taught him how to play the game. He knows you will take him back., even though I strongly agree it is against your best judgement to take someone who lied to you back without first making it clear with stern action that this behavior will not be acceptable. Make him work his way back, look out for what is best for you, if he is sleeping on someone's floor then it is his fault for not valueing his relationship with you. Stop being such a pushover or you will truly have what has already began, and that is his lack of respect as to how far he can go with his lies to you. Best of luck!
2007-01-17 10:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would have gone so far as kicking him out but I do agree that it would have me upset if he gave someone he had been with our phone number, unless of course they shared a child together and then I'd understand this. But you should have tried to talk to him about this and work thru it. This is nothing compared to what some go thru in their relationship. I'd talk to him and try working this out, at least if you want to be back with him again. Good luck to you ;o)
2007-01-17 11:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what is keeping him from apologizing and trying to get back with you is simply his pride? If a person makes a mistake but truly loves you, they can try to make ammends and express regret, but seemingly, in this case, he would rather sleep on someone's floor. I have a feeling you are better off without him. Good Luck.
2007-01-17 10:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should have respected your wishes and understood how you feel about her. I think what you did was right because you made a stand and you're not letting some guy push you around or take you for granted, and possibly pursue another person while in a relationship with you.
2007-01-17 10:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to? Let him go live with the ex that he couldn't resist giving his number to. If he doesn't respect you enough not to break all contact with this girl then you are much better off with out him.
2007-01-17 10:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware that you are calling him your "ex"? By definition, the relationship is over. Change the locks, erase his number from your phone, and move on with your life. What's done is done. You are both too immature to be in a long-term relationship.
2007-01-17 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would u kick him out if you just want him to come back.
On the reason you kicked him out I would have kicked him out to and beat the womans A$$ for sure. Or atleast scared the life out of her.
handled better no i dont think thats possible I think that was the right thing to do.
2007-01-17 10:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋