I have been seeing this boy going on a year we went out for a month and trhings got bad so we just became friends and know im hurt cause he told me he been seen other women im hurt what should i do? should i try to work things out cause i love him to death or should i leave him which would be the hardest thing in the world i cant believe how much i cry myself to sleep, please help me i need answers!!!!!
2007-01-17 02:28:28 · 22 answers · asked by ismene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not important enough to him to be the only one, leave him, it will hurt at first, but you will move on to find some one who appreciates you, you deserve better than someone who is just using you.
2007-01-17 02:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gain strength and learn self love. Whether you decide to leave him or not it won't change his lack of feelings and/or consideration for you. This will eventually start having a negative effect on your self esteem and you come across as fragile enough already. You've given it a year--that's long enough to figure things out. You'll eventually form new habits and stop the obsession about this particular guy. Don't be played. Get out and have some fun of your own. Just examine your reasons for making the poor choices in guys in the past so you don't continue to repeat the same mistakes. Dry those tears and don't let him know you're so vulnerable. You don't want to guilt anyone into continuing a relationship anyway. You're stronger than you think you are.
2007-01-17 10:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're calling him a boy, that either means you're twelve or he's really immature. Either way, time heals all wounds and someone else will come along.
If he's hurting your feelings and making you cry, drop him like a bad habit. Life is too short to feel bad.
If I had 5 dollars for everytime I thought a breakup was the worst thing that could ever happen to me, I would be very rich! No-one is worth making yourself miserable.
2007-01-17 10:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey....anytime a man is not the least bit considerate for your feelings, then that means he is not ready to be settle down. Wome have to stop allowing their judgement to be cloudied with emotions. Here you are crying your eyes out and this guy is sleeping around with other women. Hmmmm! Doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that this guy doesn't care much for you. Stop being his door matt. Stop crying and move on with your life. There are other men out there that will treat you a whole lot better. You just have to start treating yourself better first. Why would you want to put yourself in the line of emotional abuse any way?
2007-01-17 10:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Itiyah Yisrael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the quote "A man who makes you cry, isn't worth your tears"
He has moved on, and you need to do the same. Love is a hard thing to get over, some love you'll never get over, but you need to move on.
If you think you can't move on just yet, you can try talking to him about giving it another try. If he doesn't want to, then move on! Don't spend your life waiting on him.
If you both decide to be in a romantic relationship again, be careful not to stay just because you're afraid to leave. If you're not happy, and it's not working out, it will be time to move on.
Good luck on whatever decision you make, and just remind yourself that you are worth someone who will make you happy.
2007-01-17 10:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♡twitchy♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, guys will be guys,like thery flirt and they do silly things, but dating other women?! If you know for a fact that he is dating other women then why are you with him. You can either tell him you will date if he agrees to drop the others or you are leaving and moving on to bigger and better things. It really what you decide just make sure you are comfortable with it. He must really like to have multiple relationship and any case you don't need the extra baggage.
2007-01-17 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 decided that you would date each other and only each other, then it is wrong what he did. I know it may be hard, but move on hon. What if you guys get together in the future? Is he going to stay faithful? or cheat? From the sounds of this, I would not want to get back together with him. You need to take care of yourself and stop wasting time on him. Your tears are not worth his time. There is someone out there who will treat you very good. Don't give up, ok hon! Good Luck!
2007-01-17 10:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by PrincessAli'sMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're into him and he's not that into you. bad news for you. so please find some one, its worth crying for.definitely not this guy !
now stop crying from now (like right now). be a smart girl that you are and look in the mirror -tell yourself your a star and go out with your friends. break all contact with this guy because honey you cant be friends with some you're in love with and who doesn't reciprocate the same feelings or feel for you the same way. straighten up and move on
2007-01-17 10:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone who will be true to you. Why would you want to just be one of his many girls? You're better than that. Anyone who doesn't respect a relationship enough to be faithful doesn't deserve that relationship. You say he's dating "women" yet you call him a "boy." I think it's time for you to find someone you can call a "man." You need a man, not a boy who thinks he can.
2007-01-17 10:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Android 18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes seeing other women hes moved on and even though you love him you should try going on with yours too the situation dosent sound good and you should get a way from a situation that could fall through again even if you worked things out!
2007-01-17 10:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by getagrip_25301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋