there this guy and we have been friends for a while almost three years and weve been fwb for just as long and he was my first but i wasnt his. but it seems like the more we get together and do our thing the more i get attatched to him. dont get me wrong though i have no regrets about what happened, it was exactly the way i dreamed it would be. but i think hes getting feelings for me too cause hes starting to act a lot more diff than when all ofthis first started. another thing is weve been tlaking bout taking it farther than jus fwb but hes only sweet to me when were alone and when were with friends he acts completely diff. what the hell should i do with my friend?
2007-01-17 02:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IMO, if the chemistry between you too were good enough for a real loving relationship, it would have happened by now. Three years is a long time.
I think he is being sweet to you in private in response to your developing feelings for him (happens all the time in this type of relationship) but I really don't see him seriously taking the relationship any further. What would be the point? He's getting it anyway, so where is the incentive to commit to just you?
If he really wanted an exclusive commitment to you, he would have asked for it by now.
Sorry, but I think you should cut it off before you fall in love. Save yourself the heartache. It won't affect him like it affects you.
2007-01-17 02:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just the prob when you have fwb's. If you can't have a real relationship with the guy then just be with him for the booty call and that's it. Don't spend any time with him. Start dating other people. Call it quits on the fwb deal. Seems like not much of a deal if someone gets hurt in the end.
2007-01-17 10:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, your not his girlfriend yet so you cant expect him to change. And even you do become his gf you cant expect him to change.
As long as he doesn't treat you BAD, then you and him are fine!
Also...Dont stay fwb tooo long, boys get to comfortable in this position.
2007-01-17 10:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.
Dont give him any and make him respect you as a person.
Its hard - when you get attached.
Thats how FWB works.
One of the parties in it, gets attached.
Be carefule with your heart.
2007-01-17 10:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you are ok with keeping the fwb status or you are not. if not tell him. be ready that he may call it off. either way best of luck to ya.
2007-01-17 10:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by michele46us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all my exes end up being my friends with benefits
2007-01-17 10:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act different when you go out i guess
THEY CALL ME DRz
2007-01-17 10:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by drzthephotoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had one, but you can not be emonitaly attached to him!!! it only causes problems!!
2007-01-17 10:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who hasn't
2007-01-17 10:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by PUTTIN' TANG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋