ok he was full on and then it all stopped when he went on a trip, then after a few weeks back he started to txt again and when i questioned it he std txting then he told me he was scared of commitment. Then when I ended it he called saying he would have always wondered about me so i ended up seeing him again as really liked him. Txts went bk and forth, he said he didnt want to waste time etc. After spending the night with him again I txt him saying wanted to spend more time with him. He said he couldnt commit and wasnt ready for anything serious. I really liked him did he just not like me? Dont understand? I should mention he was not long out of a long term relationship.
2007-01-17 02:21:24 · 13 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...im having similar guy issues..and idk what to tell you, but i know how you feel. the best bet is to let him go. i know that its not easy when you care about someone, but maybe if you dont talk to him for a bit then hell come around. maybe he wont, but you want to find someone who will commit, and who wants to spend the time with you. hope this helps
2007-01-17 02:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by jenpen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he knows what he wants and you gave it to him again when you slept with him again. Why would he want to commit when you are giving him what he wants when he wants it with no commitment? Cut him off and ditch the bum, you deserve better and certainly can do better. He is not going to change and when he says that he is afraid of commitment, he is telling you that he has no intention of anything serious with you. Time for you to have the guts to do what he is too much of a coward to do and that is dump him and move on.
2007-01-17 10:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want you as a girlfriend, he just want to play around with you. That's how most men are, so don't be upset. Stop wasting time on him and look for another guy.
2007-01-17 10:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem like he's ready to be in another relationship. He seems to be using. I would give him some space. Stop texting him for a while.
2007-01-17 10:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think the guy probably considers you as someone that is 'not good enough to be his girlfriend'. So, I wouldn't be so quick to accomodate him if I were you. You deserve better. Move on.
2007-01-17 10:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont understand? I should mention he was not long out of a long term relationship.
YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION
THEY CALL ME DRz
2007-01-17 10:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by drzthephotoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you enough to sleep with or hang out with but not enough to have a relationship with
2007-01-17 10:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just getting some ***! He is using you so next time he texts you tell him to bugger off!
2007-01-17 10:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,besure if he loves you he'll stay with you.he just want something to enjoy.no serious commitment means no love.cut it off!
2007-01-17 10:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Neda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want one thing, and he doesn't know what he wants.
Have some dignity and stand up for yourself: that's not what you want. Move along.
2007-01-17 10:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋