I'm in love with this lady. I want to spent more time with her & do more things together. Apparently, she's unwilling to after a recent argument we had. The caused of the argument was this. I kept bitching that she's NOT spending enough time with me. We used to spend a certain amount of time, making-out during the weekdays & more on Sat. Due to the argument we had, she said she's unwilling to spent time with me on Mon-Fri anymore since I complaint and b*tch too much, always wanted more and would not stop. Instead, she'll only spend time with me on Sat. So, one of her solutions to help me is NOT to make out with me during the weekdays. She said this will help me to calm down. Now, I'm angry, mad, upset, jealous all mixed in one coz we won't be spending the time we used to during the weekdays. However she said she will only spent more time with me on Sat. I don't feel good about myself & I can't help it feeling this way. I know I could be a b*tch sometimes.
2007-01-17 02:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by Inquirer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww maybe she's scared because of how much you love her, i'm guessing that she loves you back though. i always want to spend more and more time with my boyfriend but i've found as we've been together longer it's easier to be apart for longer 'cos you know they're coming back and things will only get better. try not to ***** about her, it won't do anyone any good.
2007-01-17 03:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clingy, needy people are a turn off. And she's turned off, but not completely, so she's keeping you around for at least one day a week. You brought this on yourself by bitching too much. There is nothing about complaining that is going to make someone want to be around you more. It only annoys them and makes them want to be around you less.
The only thing you can do here to regain some self respect is to pass on the Saturday make out day and go find a life without her. Usually, the people that resist us become irresistible to us. So perhaps if you take the power away from her by not settling for her abbreviated schedule, she'll decide she likes you more. Of course, she might just say "Fine, go ahead and go." Burt at least you'd have some semblance of self respect and control over yourself.
In the future, when you feel you're wigging out over someone, just keep it to yourself. No one has to know that you're feeling crazy unless you actually SHOW IT.
2007-01-25 02:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm yes i can relate to that and cant explain unless she does not want you.I've been there and still love her but i cant do anything about that.and all i wanted to do is be with her all the time. sorry cant help to much just hope she realizes how much you love her and good luck
2007-01-25 01:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by meanstreak007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋