is there a way to carry on?

Question

this girl i knew, we went out for dates kissed hugged and held hands but our status are not attached thou. i know hse hadn't really got over her ex but she did say before she like me but don't know whether it was a crush. lately she told me the she don't want to be hte one leading me on and we'd starting to drift apart. is there something i could do to make her interested, like dating tips or something?

Answer 1

When you reach 21, the advice gets simpler - get drunk.......

Answer 2

She said she doesn't want to lead you on...meaning she is not interested at this time. The best way to solve your problem is to put a lot of distance between you, don't call her, don't keep asking what else you can do, don't have any further conversations with her, don't go where she goes socially....move on and see what happens. She is asking for space and if you continue to invade what space she has, you will only make her want you less. Distract yourself with good friends and get out and have fun, even if you have to fake it for awhile. Get busy with the rest of your life.

Answer 3

Sounds like she is still confused. Why don't you let her go. Its not good idea to date her if shes confuse about you and her ex. Once she moved on and ready for everything, all you have to run and grab her. :)

Answer 4

if you think that she is with you to make her ex mad you need to move on and find someone that will make you happy.no one deserves to be used and hurt.find a good girl and go on with yor life.and if your a good guy.she will see what she has lost and can't have you know more.good luck.

Answer 5

You cannot make someone like you. I know it sucks and all but if she doesn't like you in that sort of way then there truly is nothing you can do about it.

Answer 6

Kiss her once to say goodbye if you are leaving somewhere, and maybe she'll become interseted.