My ex and I broke up 2 1/2 weeks ago.
I found out he gave his ex his new number and kicked him out.
This is a girl he dated when we broke up previously last eyar. He knew how much I did not like her. And I did not want him talking to her.
So I made him leave right then and there. I feel bad now, cause he didn't really have anywhere to go.
He went to his friends and is sleeping on the floor there.
I should have handled ths situation better, but he knew that hurt me and did it anyways.
Is he too proud to ask to come back and live with me?
2007-01-17 02:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tried to dictate who he could have as friends (extremely bad move on your part).
He did nothing wrong. You kicked him out.
Hopefully he is man enough to disregard you until you come crawling to him, apologizing to him.
You screwed up. Period.
2007-01-17 02:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by redjetta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wasn't to proud to give his ex his #. He is probably dating his ex right now and that is one reason he is not asking to come back. The other reason is if a woman kicked me out I wouldn't ask to come back either if she kicks me out than that's it I would be hurt but I don't cry over spilled milk life is to short and I would just move on.
If you care about him and think it's going to work (which I don't since he went out with her last year) than call him and ask him what he want's out of the relationship.
2007-01-17 10:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know him better than we do, but more to the point - do you want him back, and if so, are you too proud to admit you made a mistake?
Don't wait around for him to make a decision; if you want him back, ask him to return. Only do so if you're both prepared to make a real effort, because if you blew up unreasonably at this, you're likely to do so again. I think you realize you're trying too hard to control his actions, and that he will begin to resent you for it unless you give him a bit more space.
I sincerely hope you can sort something out between you; but it's going to take both of you to try.
2007-01-17 10:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's tired of your mind games. You shouldn't be concerned over someone's ex unless you catch them in the act. By you kicking him out, you gave him the thumbs up for going back to her. He might not have wanted to but if he has nowhere else to go, you may have driven him to going back to her for that reason.
You can't run other people's lives. Think of how it would have been if he were in your shoes. Would he have kicked you out for such a little thing as that?
2007-01-17 10:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't come back b/c he's having fun with her. You gave him a way out of the relationship by kicking him out. Now he doesn't have to feel guilty about being with her behind your back b/c you gave him the boot.
2007-01-17 10:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a combination of that and the fact that he's still pissed as hell about being kicked out and doesn't really want to have to subject himself to that treatment again.
2007-01-17 10:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you handled this wrong at all. He gave his new number to an ex girlfriend and you feel bad?! Good riddance. Move on and forget about him.
2007-01-17 10:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmi 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You kicked him out, so... (1) why do you care and (2) if you want him to come back, APOLOGIZE STUPID!
2007-01-17 10:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by acollegeangel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You kicked him out, why would he come back?
2007-01-17 10:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't feel bad for him. He chose to his path and you can't do anything about it.
2007-01-17 10:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋