I froze and said no when I should have said yes. She has being off sick since.Is it to late to say anything to her when she comes back to work. Would her romantic feelings off me disappeared altogether in the space of a few weeks?
2007-01-17 02:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by Mick 5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been in there..girl's position whole thing...atleast you are conscious of the fact that your answer inflicted something to her feelings. But she doesn't know about that so the best thing to do is let her know you know your answer hurt her.
You don't have to change your answer if you think it was the right one.
Trust me she'll feel better when she hears from you coz that silence from you is killing her deep down. Loads of stuff will be running into her head but if you keep in touch with her that would do her great.
Good Luck
2007-01-17 02:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by JAM - Emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have her address, sent her a get-well card and write abut what you really feel and sort of was swept of your feet by her approach. Give her you cell number and have her call you or do so after a day or 2 when the card might have arrived. Leave a note on her desk when she gets back could be an options too.
2007-01-17 02:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get her address or phone number then make contact. Get well card and some good flowers,not carnations, would be a great start. On the card you could arrange to see her when she is better and put on your telephone number. Sign the card LOVE MIck5
2007-01-17 02:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by ANF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so - why not take her to one side when you next see her and tell her that you had been dying for her to come back as you wanted to talk to her - explain that you had just frozen when she asked and that you in fact do.
Even better than that - if you can get her address and get flowers delivered - that would be mega brownie points for you
xx
2007-01-17 02:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you were so gobsmacked that someone as nice as her even looked at you and all that. If of ill ask her mates for her address so you can pop round with some flowers. Girls all talk and she will be ready for you to pop round unexpectedly.
Good luck.
2007-01-17 02:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by malejocelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think Maybe she hasn't come in coz u said no she could just be a bit embarrassed tell her the day she comes back
2007-01-17 02:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Edward W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You nonce! Handed to you on a plate and you fuxxed up!
Better drag her to one side when she gets back and tell her the truth! Tell her you couldn't admit something like that at work or something!
2007-01-17 02:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my ex brother-in-law, he found out her home address and sent flowers to her, wishing her to get better soon so that he could ask her out.IT WORKED they are married now.
2007-01-17 02:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you! I don't think it will matter. I suggest you stop asking us and ask her out for a relaxed catch-up drinky when she comes back. You'll soon find out!
2007-01-17 02:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by tigerfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be truthful to your feelings and to yourself next time...so that you will not encounter the same dilemma again.
if you have her phone number...call her and tell her the truth...maybe by then, she'll report back to work.
GOD bless you
2007-01-17 02:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by cheen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋