theres a guy i really like, i'm just not sure he likes me,
is it wrong 4 me 2 tell him? or should i wait on him? we talk alot!
i just dont wanna b out of place and ruin a good friendship.
2007-01-17 01:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by goth girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly if its a good friendship you should be able to come clean with any and all your feelings... who knows maybe that friendship could become something more. But if not... and hes a true friend.. he will understand and always be there for you. Just dont feel akward and be confident with your approach.. thats exactly how I married my husband
2007-01-17 01:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewithasoldier06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that? There are many shy guys who would not make a move then it is the girl who should make the move provided the girl is interested. Waiting will be too long since it will be more like "Cold War'. Come on get him if you really like him or if he is your type.
Best of luck
2007-01-17 01:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly ok for the gal to make the first move... Go do it, although you may want to be subtle in doing it to see his response... Try to talk to him more often and maybe accompany him when his alone and see whether his interested in you then you wouldnt ruin a good friendship... If his interested, he would the reach all out to be with you...;)
2007-01-17 01:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want 2 break ur heart but z problem is zat there was a guy b4 in my life,we talked a lot n joked, whenever he sees me n can't talk 2 me,he smiles to me but when i anonymously told him(by sms) zat i loved him, he told me zat he loved som1 else n when 1 day i txt him n told him zat it was me, he told me he doesn't want 2 hear zat again n so on but we r still frenz, he talks 2 me as if nothing happened but i think 4 ur case i don't really know coz if 1 of u don't make z first step nothing will happen but bear in mind zat 1 day u n him will break up n ur friendship wiz him won't b z same!
2007-01-17 01:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Zahrah N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goth girl, nothing wrong with you making the move. Most guys like that. Just smile, say Hi, and let him know how you feel. However, it is best to do this when the two of you are alone. If you do this while he is with his friends, he may get flustered.
2007-01-17 01:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys like it when a girl make the first move but he may not try talking to him about past relationships to get an idea of what to do.
2007-01-17 01:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by lessershoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when a girl comes on to me. Guys are stupid when it comes to women we don't always know if your interested. If your nervous just ask him out on a friendly date of dinner and a movie, maybe "accidently" lay your hand on his during the movie and see what he does.
Good luck
2007-01-17 01:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you on not ruining your friendship,but do you want to live your life wondering what could have been or what would have happened if ......?i say let your friend know but you have to be prepared for what ever answer he gives you and respect it,if it isnt what you want to hear.
2007-01-17 01:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok if a girl makes the first move!
2007-01-17 01:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to lunch. You don't have to tell him you care for him. Just invite him and pay for it. If he doesn't respond as you wish keep looking for that perfect partner
2007-01-17 01:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by ibsmahtuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋