i told my ex bf that i missed him, he hasnt said anything about it.. we r friends, and i want to be friends, but i really want something more, but dont want to lose our friendship...
what should i do? tell him how i feel and thats why we cant be friends? or just stay friends and pretend nothing is going on, but i have this feeling he keeps flirting with me, but if i ask him, he will say its all i my head.. but i know its not...
what should i do??
2007-01-17 01:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i havent slept with him, and i dont want him to go away
2007-01-17 01:50:25 · update #1
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD BE HONEST and tell him how you feel and thats why you cant be friends
2007-01-17 02:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's playing with your head. He knows how you feel about him. Believe me sister I've been down this road a few times, I'm 43 and in my experience the best thing to do is sit back and watch the fireworks.
There's a little theory and it looks like this.
MAN>>>>>>>>>>X<<<<<<<<
For some reason as soon as the man feels that he needs to withdraw he moves back, then the woman is likely to try to move closer. The closer you get the more he moves away. And as soon as you step over the X mark it's over.
So just relax and find some new friends it's far too complicated to make an ex your friend.
2007-01-17 09:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by redrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him be straight forward ask him if he still cares for you in any way. Tell him you miss him and want to be togther but don't want to lose the friendship you have. Ask him if there could be anything togther with you again or not if not keep the friends ship but move on and try to find another guy.
2007-01-17 09:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd just leave it alone, if you want more than friendship out of the relationship and he doesn't you'll only get hurt in the end. Sounds to me like he doesn't want a relationship. I would take the friendship for what it is, if you see him say hi and thats it. Time to move on. Good luck
2007-01-17 09:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by irlefw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you r feel inside. you can't keep this bottle in any longer. because this is just hurting you in the long run. you need to let him know. ask him those questions. but wait just another week and see how he reacts when you don't call him or text him. if he keeps calling you. then start to let him know how you are feeling.
2007-01-17 09:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mz T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am kinda sorting going through the same thing my ex told me that he loved me like 3 months after we split and no matter how bad i want to get back with him i will not let my self because i remeber the reason y we broke up and i do not want to go through that again so it is up to you but think about it
2007-01-17 09:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given him sex? If so, that is all he wants. Just play it cool for a couple of weeks. Don't be so quick to run to him when he calls. He just might come around once again...
2007-01-17 09:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find someone else for a boy friend and either he will get jealous and pay more attention to you or ignore you completly. remember that if you do get serious with someone else you won't have time for him anyhow, friend or otherwise
2007-01-17 09:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else... if he really cared about you he would want to be dating you and show it. I am going through the exact same thing myself. He is probly a loser just like mine but u just don't know it yet. Find someone who appreciates you.
2007-01-17 09:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't talk to him for a couple of weeks. At all. It will all go away.
2007-01-17 09:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋