Well am in care and when i moved in to my new home me and my foster sister had i thing and i end up falling for her well bad but i dont know what to do beacause when am with her i hurt me HELP me solve this
2007-01-17 01:43:50 · 13 answers · asked by lOST IN HATE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
as long as she is not blood related and you both feel the same way there is nothing to stop you getting together. talk to her about it
2007-01-17 01:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by missree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cherish your foster sister's company.
Do not get sexual whatsoever as long as you two are minors.
If you still feel the same way about one another once you both are 18, then revisit the topic.
The think the confusion is: is it really your foster sister you have feeling for or is it because she and you are "available" and there is opportunity.
The person you like, you want to like genuinely. Make sure you genuinely like one another and that's why I advise to wait until you both are 18 and adults. As adults, you can do whatever you want to do. As minors, you need to rely on your foster parents to provide a good home for you.
You can do it. Show respect for your sister. That's the stuff that long lasting relationships are made of.
2007-01-17 03:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stress so hard, shes your foster sister not even adopted so if your both able to continue with this undercover then do so, though i think it Will be harder if you been a member of the family for a long time but most likely your feelings for each other will pass in time and I'm sure you'll meet somebody else in the future
2007-01-18 06:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by ben s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is only your foster sister and i ws under the impression that it was okay beause you arent really related but maybe you should talk to your foster parents and get them to tell you straight so you know. good luck
2007-01-17 02:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
foster/ is not blood........but think about it ..its family....stay away....its not good..there are many others in this world...
and remember family is here to stay and it never goes away...so hypothetically you mess around and it doesnt work in the end (which it will not) she will always be around
at some point you will be ashamed of yourself
2007-01-17 01:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by jessys3000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like everyone else is saying if shes not blood than its not really that bad as long as it dose not cause problems with others in the house!
2007-01-17 02:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by getagrip_25301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not blood related then theres no reason you should not go out together.Good Luck
2007-01-17 01:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is not blood related to you so i think that is OK. how does she feel? i think you can get married in some other countries. sorry if i offended you but that is my opinion.
2007-01-17 01:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok if your not blood related go for it and be happy
2007-01-18 22:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by dee.jackson7@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your sister thats incest and against the law, seek help from a therapist
2007-01-17 01:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋