2007-01-17 01:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by Mick 5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's alot easier said than done..but most of us girls understand that you're a little nervous when asking us out..So you go up to the girl and be like "hey, you're really pretty..and I like you alot...will you go out with me?"..or something along those lines..You just gotta take a whack at it..and hope they say yes!
Good luck!
2007-01-17 01:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think some one has alreally said to write a letter, if you do there may be an outside chance that it may be passed around so be careful with the wording, it may be better to ask in the letter that you are going say for a coffee or what ever people do these days, and invite her along, that way you can bresk the ice with chat about general things.Nothing wrong with that, then when you get use to her you won't be so nervous when you ask her out .
2007-01-17 02:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You rehearse it over and over again until it glides off your tongue. Then before you are about to do it, just before you see her, take 3 deep breaths (we breathe too shallow when nervous), hold each slow breath in for 5 seconds and slowly breathe out..
The nervousness comes from the fear of being turned down....you need to know that even the most confident of people are afraid of this.
If she turns you down, simply say 'okay, it was worth asking....no problem'
You'll be glad you did, 'cos even if she says no...you did it!!! Yay!! so you'll then know you ARE capable in future.
Good luck and have a nice date!
2007-01-17 01:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly, don't practice at all, you'll totally fluff your lines...
secondly, if you're of a legal alcohol drinking age, never underestimate the powers of a shot of vodka for calming the nerves.... only one shot though!
thirdly, just make it a spur of the moment thing, just ask her.. i'm sure she'll be more than flattered...
lastly, even if you do stutter, don't worry about it and don't get hung up on it...make a joke about it, say you're nervous about asking her... she seriously won't mind, or think any less of you!
good luck...
2007-01-17 01:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by muppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 08:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember they may be fit but theere just a normal person like u or get to know them as a friend first then u will be more comfortable
2007-01-17 01:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Edward W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bless! Close your eyes and hold her hand, if she's a good lass she will appreciate you are overcoming a fear to ask her out
2007-01-20 09:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely write a letter and explain you would have liked to do it in person but you have a nervous stutter, this way she is prepared for when she says yes to your date
2007-01-17 01:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask her out on a day that you are looking and feeling good..that way you excume confidence.
2007-01-17 01:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Practice in front of the mirror. It will make things easier for you!!
2007-01-17 01:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋