We started going out alot and he asked me if i was seeing someone....bah bah bah...we knew that we had some sort of feelings toward each other..and 2 months ago he asked my status...(i.e. single, in a realtionship, etc) Since i was not too sure about us so i just answered "single" but he corrected me saying that "your status is "occupied" because I have occupied you" (something like this/forgot the exact wording) What does it really mean? He never said that i am his gf, our status is kinda vague.i dont want to give him 2 much pressure, i just want to be there for him...but I do feel very confused by this kinda status.
2007-01-17 01:39:35 · 10 answers · asked by vivian l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that's a new one! Don't read in to it too much though....sounds as though HE wants to "occupy" you which I would define as.....taken :-) Very cute move.
2007-01-17 01:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that you are occupied. No one else can occupy your space so long as you are sharing that with him. This is what he meant by correcting your single status. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-17 01:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask him what he ment by this.. Why are you not sorting this by clairfing your relationship.. Sounds like he has assumed possesion but unless you know certain I would suggest you just ask in plain english.
My 2 cents.. Any guy that talks in this fashion is better left to occupy his own space and I suggest you move on...
2007-01-17 01:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bill G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying that he is currently what occupies you. Do you talk, visit, text him ALL THE TIME? If so he occupies you. Because right now I bet you don't think about any other guy but him...Trust me, I know this cause I'm occupied curently=) GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-17 01:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say you men are dating or "seeing one yet another" as you reported. yet i don't think of that it is all that's, it variety of feels extra severe than purely dating, yet not particularly going out. So i might in all probability call it a acquaintances with advantages element, even in spite of the undeniable fact which you have not slept mutually i'm assuming you have kissed. and that's not an open dating because of the fact neither of you elect to work out absolutely everyone else. i'm getting what you propose in spite of the undeniable fact that, like what are you meant to call him to your pals? If it have been me i might call him my boy toy. All in all in spite of the undeniable fact that that's fairly lots a dating.. you purely might desire to get to the stable asking out area :P sturdy success :) p.s. while he does ask... do not say "beneficial.." say 'specific!' (in case you probably did not already know :P)
2016-10-07 07:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he believes that you two are in a relationship,which prevents you from seeing other people.
Obviously he has old fashioned ideas and you need to specify exactly to him where your relationship with him is at this time.
If you are not wearing a ring,then yes your are single and free to do what you want.
2007-01-17 01:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might means that you are single but seeing someone. Its like in process to become taken, could be.
2007-01-17 01:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He means that he has claimed you without actually commiting to you. It means that he doesn't want you to see anybody else, but he still wants the freedom to do whatever he wants.
2007-01-17 01:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bascialy it just means that he is dating someone so do not flip out because of it i am sure everything is going to be fine ok
2007-01-17 01:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're a couple-he was trying to be cute but it really wasn't
2007-01-17 01:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Doug H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋