If a guy is just seeing you for sex but then waits for you whilst you are waiting for your train, and as you get on it he looks back rather than just walking off what the heck does that mean? Then texts "it was good to see you again x"
2007-01-17 01:39:28 · 37 answers · asked by anais_24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that the sex was great and can't wait to see you again. He looked back when you got on the train to make sure that you were safely on there. Plain and simple!
2007-01-21 21:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hun,
Well, it's a tricky one this ! Does he like you, does he not ? It could well be because he's suddenly realised that there is more to the two of you than just sex and wants more, he clearly cares to a degree or why else would he wait with you at the station ?( unless he's a real gentleman of course, lol )
You know, a lot of couples start off as " sex only" and go on to fall in love, so you two wouldn't be the first . Is he married ? If he is, it could be tricky, but if he's not, then look out for more signs, and maybe just ask him outright if he cares about you ! I would , at least then you would know where you stood ( assuming you like HIM that is ) .
The thing is, if the two of you are having sex, then there is " something" there...isn't there ? You must at the very least be physically attracted to one another .
If you need to know how he feels, I think you should ask him ( if possible) if not...then wait and see what develops.
Good luck anyway, whatever decision you make .
2007-01-24 08:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Paris69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different interpretations coming your way from this community. I am thinking you need to ask this man.
Could be he is the sort of man who always waits to be sure that a woman is safely on her way before he turns his attention to other things. Could be he not only enjoys the sex, but you and your company.
I just watched a rerun of "Sex and the City" where Miranda learns that "with guys, there are no hidden messages." So a text that says it was good to see you again means it was good to see you again. The x is just a kiss, isn't it? You kiss during sex, don't you?
But that's just my observation. We're all giving you different ones. Watch for clues from him and ask if you are wondering. You may be in danger of wanting more than just sex. This is the downside of the whole "friends with benefits" thing and why I believe that it ultimately doesn't work.
2007-01-25 01:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I feel that the best way to answer your question is for you and I to reenact the whole thing.
Let's start by me seeing you just for sex...
When we get to the train station I will figure out why I would even look back. Then I will text you all about it. O by the way do you like it rough?
2007-01-17 01:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure why he is doing it. He definitely likes you, would be silly to suggest anything different, he may be a gent (apart from using you for sex! lol) and not seeing you off in a proper manner wouldn't feel like a right thing to do for him. Maybe there is more to it: maybe he feels like having more but for one reason or the other his choice is not to get involeld any further. Is he married? I gues the only thinig you can do to find out is to ask him if there is anything more to your relatioship than just sex, if he wants any more to that, and do it without any pressure. If he says something like bla bla bla, then dont' have any doubts that it is just for sex.
2007-01-17 02:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Went through this when i meet my fiancee would just come to my house have a cup of tea watch telly .He told me he would never marry me are be able to go out with me because i had a child. Then all that changed 8 years later and a little boy and planning are wedding we are doing fine .I ask him why he was like that at first he said he wanted to get to know me so just go along with it and enjoy each others company it took me 6 months before anything happened so good luck
2007-01-22 05:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Julie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take what he says for the truth. the fact that he waits for your train just means that he's trying to do something nice to take away the guilt of of a sex only relationship. find someone who has more in common with you and cares about you for more than just a roll between the sheets. once you do that, you'll realize how important you are and that you deserve someone who will care more for you!
2007-01-22 12:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by teacuptakeaway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he likes u i think.
do u have a written agreement that neither side
is allowed to have any feelings?
I'm sorry but i don't really understand this sex without
feelings bit. it is against what i feel in my heart.
i don't think i could have sex with a lady if i didn't love her.
mind u that's not saying a lot!!
u'd have to know me to understand methinks!!
why don't u ask him what he feels.
it seems like a good question, especially as u seem
to know him so well already.
u'll have to pardon my apparent sarcasm but i refer
u to the answer above.
it doesn't mean i love u any less bcos i don't
agree with ur lifestyle tho!!
love and hugs..er...friendly ones!
xxooxx
2007-01-17 01:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it means tha hes startin2like u, but once u become the "just sex" person, it kinda stops u havin a real relationship cuz it degrades u in a way, if u hav feelings 4this guy id tel him an if he dnt feel the same way stop it b4 it messes u up. been ther done that, got very confused.
2007-01-25 00:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Li 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does like u and enjoys sex, but prob not want to have to go out with u, u know the tied down aspect may not be appealing. he may well ask u out soon but i would not do anything about until he is ready, and if u think that u cant be arsed with the situation then do something or get out
2007-01-17 01:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by nessx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋