Its not that im not sociable... In fact im very friendly and make friends easily and have a huge social circle... the teachers even said that im too talkative... and i have a lot of gal frens but nothing more then that... It seems i cannot cross the barrier of just being friends with gals... And if i make the first step they might think that im trying to get fresh with them, either that or that gals that i like already has a boyfriend... I just donno why??? Any gals or guys with experience ?? And oh ya im not bad looking, its just that im only a bit on the short side at 5'8... And no i dont have any disgusting habits and im not a turn off in whatever way... So please help...
2007-01-17 01:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not seem to be that bad. Your height is perfectly alright. What basically you need is to be a little sober and do not be haste with words or gestures like excessive movement of hands or lot of shrugging of shoulders or your head on every line you speak. These are few things that normally irritate the gals which they think that one is being a show-off. If you really are not doing these things then the problem could be excessive speaking and not giving enough time for the other person to come out. I think you deserve a gf. Just find out how much can you improve on your way of presentation.
2007-01-17 01:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you stop calling them gals, that might help. Your height is not the problem either. I believe that when you are meant to be with someone, you will be. Maybe you shouldn't try so hard. You said you are friends with many of the girls you know, so why not start from there. It's very imporant to be friends first anyway. You will be fine. My husband was still a virgin at 34 when I met him, so there is hope for you. Just don't settle or the right one will pass you by. Take your time and enjoy yourself. Get to know the girl very well before deciding on dating her or not. This will save you alot of time and frustration. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-17 01:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm.....First off, 5'8" isnt really that short (especially for many girls, who typically are short, like me Im 5' 2"), so I doubt thats a big issue. Maybe you come off as friendly, but not INTERESTED? How old are you? You mention teachers, so high school or college age is what Im assuming, but ya never know. Have you tried singles groups in your area? Everyone there is looking for the same thing, so perhaps thats worth a try.
Id say watch your demeenor; if youre interested in someone, let your body language (a longer glance, a smile, LISTENING) speak for you. If someone is interested in you, know when to be quiet and give your attention. When the right one comes along, she'll be just as interested as you are.
Good luck!
2007-01-17 01:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably viewed as very likeable and will be surprised by how large your circle of friends grow in the coming years. Give it some time....you'll soon have many females to pick from. For now, you're developing an image of being someone that is easy to get along with, easy to be around, and an 'all around good guy.' Let all the jerks break their hearts--and they'll have you to turn to. Don't be in such a rush to develop a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship....all things come in good time. Good Luck
2007-01-17 01:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you ought to consistently bypass out to dinner with the adult males, not inevitably a intense-high quality place, yet like a pizza parlor. bypass bowling, you may drink some yet females wont be wasted off their asses. Amuzment parks are relaxing, maximum of those do not serve alcohol. the videos. Take a run on the community park. stroll your canines in case you have one, or take it to the animal park. The gymnasium. you're saying you're shy yet all you ought to do is polietly say hi and smile in passing to a woman. That spectacular away supplies her the impact you're friendly and approachable.
2016-10-31 08:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too nice? Girls don't want a guy who is nice to them all the time. Especially high school aged girls. They want a guy that will basically give them something to talk about with their girlfriends.
2007-01-17 01:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax your time will come,just make sure your ready because a relationship with the opposite sex requires lots of patience and tender care
2007-01-17 01:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you've answered your own question. Women aren't attracted to "nice." FRIENDS are nice.
2007-01-17 02:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabey your too nice, for some reason guys who are rude get the girls.
2007-01-17 01:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by lessershoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its when you put all your efforts in looking you never see,take it cushty,relax & chill out,they will come
2007-01-17 01:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by delboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋