on his history as "most visited site". He told me it was on there because of pop-ups. I feel that he is not telling the truth. Any computer experts out there to help me with this answer?
2007-01-17 01:21:59 · 24 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust him then why are you marrying him?
2007-01-17 01:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a computer expert, but he probably visited the site. It's not likely that this the site would show up in his 'history' just b/c of pop-ups. Try to find his profile and then you'll have something to talk to him about. He was probably 'fishing' to see what else was out there.
2007-01-17 09:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, he is not telling you the truth, why would Match.com be in someones history, because of a pop up. It WOULDN"T!!!! The next question is: is he still in contact from anyone from Match.com??? I would certainly find out the details. You can not trust someoe who lies to you. Re think the engagement, better to find out now then if you were married and had children.
2007-01-17 09:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u can x out pop ups u don't have to go to the site itself. And even if u went there once, u wouldn't continue to go there everytime it popped up. You need to sit and really talk to him about this because the last thing u want is distrust if u plan on marrying this guy. Maybe he used to go there before he met u and feels ashamed of it, but either way u need to find out the truth so u can move on and have the future u want with or without him.
2007-01-17 09:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think computer technicalities are your chief difficulty here. Obviously, you done a little research to obtain the information you have in your question, so Biblical speaking "Seek and ye shall find."
If you're looking for a reason why it won't work out between the two of you, then say it's because it's not what you wanted instead of trying to play "computer/hacker/007/spec ops-lady" on the internet. Because, you'll have to really make him out to be an a**hole in order for it to work, or maybe he doesn't want the relationship, either way you need to try some better communication.
2007-01-17 09:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by boombabybob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should check to see if he has an account there. If not then it is ok, if so then you know he was lying and then you need to decide what to do from there. Most of the time when they have an account there they will get emails saying so and so wants to meet you or this persons profile matches what you are looking for. You could also check credit card statements because you have to pay for those services. Good luck!
2007-01-17 09:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a manm.callit off. He is and I willput it bluntly not being truthful and is lying to you.
That information would not be there if he had not posted ithimself.
He has to log into that profile for anthing to be entered. jsut visitng or ads, do not let me repeat enter information on ones profile unless someon has or you have given someone yur password for it.
Thhis guy is giving you some bull.
you need to think if he is dishonest with you now, how can you have any trust in him if you marry him.
Take a walk away from this dude, he is playing the field.
2007-01-17 09:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite indicative of what you can expect after you are married. Think on it darlin because if you give this man your vows then you have to stick with them all your life.
If you don't want to have to handle this in three or thirty years from now then seriously consider what this man is saying to you this day!!!
A man won't change for you darlin. No man will. A man will only change if he absolutely has to.
This is one of his terms for the marriage. In a marriage the only thing that will not change throughout the life of the marriage are the terms of the man. What he is doing now is part of his terms. I don't know what other terms he has set down for you: but I do know that a marriage and a woman are constantly changing. The only thing that will remain the same come the end of your marriage are the terms a man has set on his wedding day.
So either you accept his terms now, or reject them and find a man that holds terms that you can accept.
If you do marry him and expect him to change for you...then all you are doing is setting him up for failure. Eventually you will fail the marriage.
He won't change for you.His present actions speaks for himself. He's made his decisions for his life.
Now you make a decision.
2007-01-17 09:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts are right don't ingnore them however it might have been a harmless thing.
But my theory is if you are spending time and energy on someone else and not on the relationship it weakens it.
You need him to be looking up websites for Honeymoon places and your wedding not match.com.
Also he has given you a reason not to trust him in one way so don't let him pull that " too jealous" crap on you.
Good Luck!
2007-01-17 09:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by lb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, you and your soon to be husband might want to sit down and talk to see if he's serious about this whole "marriage" thing. He shouldnt be on match.com, hell he shouldnt be on the computer period...id be with my fiance, my child if there was one, or working if i was engaged to be married. This would be my life, this would be MY reason for existing, and anything outside of these people and things wouldnt matter to me at all.
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2007-01-17 09:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you this I dont get popups fot match. com and it cant be a most visited site unless you go there alot. If its just a pop up and hes not interested then he can just click it off and it wont be on his most visited list. I would call him on it beore you get married. Maybe hirea pi if you have the money
2007-01-17 09:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋