i had a pretty good childhood but never had my mother i only had my dad and nan now my mother is threatening to tell my dad im pregnant!! my mother is a horrible person who only cares for herself and her other children shes really nasty.
2007-01-17 01:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
depends on how old you are... if your under 18 you break it to him before your mom does because if he cares about you he wont be dissapointed and most likely be supportive. but if your mom tells him then you could be in for it for hiding it from him. if your over 18 your mom can go get fu*ked because your legal and cen be pregnant all you damn well please. just tell your dad because you know he (hopefully) will be okay with it maybe even offet to help you out a lil bit as being pregnant isnt easy. just make sure w/e u do dont let your mom be a *****. stand up to her and be the more adult one.
2007-01-17 01:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it depends on your situation. How old are you? if you are young, your dad will probably be a little disappointed at first, but if you have a good relationship with him the best thing to do would be to sit him down and say, You know, I'm not exactly happy that this happened right now, but I am pregnant and I want to keep the baby and I'd love it if you were on my side with this. Mom wanted to tell you to be mean and spiteful but I wanted to confide in you first on my terms.
It would sound better coming from you - espeically if you are close to him - he'll be hurt that you didn't feel like you could come to him - and your mother told him just to be hateful.
Also, if you plan on keeping your baby - the longer you give him to adjust to the idea of being granddad - the better it will be - if you wait until right before you have the baby - he's not going to have had time to adjust... sit him down, have a heart to heart - you'll feel better - even if it doesn't go so well at first - if he cares for you - he'll care for that baby even more.
good luck.
2007-01-17 01:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by henibee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him as soon as possible. We cant really tell you how to tell him, there isnt very many ways to do it, just say it. He probably just wanted to threaten you so you would have been more careful but if he loves you he will support you. He might be mad at the beginning but when he gets over it, im sure he will be with you. In case he does kick you out, ask a friend to stay over for a couple of days to give your dad some time to cool off.
2016-05-23 23:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be eating well and taking care of yourself. You should see a doctor by 10-12 weeks at least. That means, you are going to have to tell your dad sooner or later and it would be better coming from you than your mother. You are going to have a ton of decisions to make and you will need him for that. It is going to be tough but you will get through it.
2007-01-17 01:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by D Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he will find out - in time you will not be able to hid your situation!
It's best that you tell him sooner than later - so that when he does find out it's not a matter of "why didn't you tell me before this?"
Since your Dad has always been there - is there some reason why you are nervous about telling him? He's your dad - chances are if he's always been there he always will!
Good Luck
2007-01-17 01:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by mother of 3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well i think its much better coming from you than it is from your mom. It will at least show him that you wanted to tell him because if he heaRS it from her, its going to seem as if u were hiding it, and gives him a little more reason to be angry. And im sure he will be in the beginning, but if yall are that close, ur dad loves u no matter what and he will come around.
2007-01-17 01:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad. It's hard, but you HAVE to do it, don't give your mother the edge of telling your dad, and tell your dad that your mother is threating you. and that will take the news and shift it to your "bad mother"
good luck and i hope everything works out for you.
p.s. sorry about your sucky mother
2007-01-17 01:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by hkirishmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there.
The best thing for you to do is to beat her to it! She can not do any damage if he already knows.
I know it is hard but I am sure that he loves you and will be there for you.
I have to disagree with the one girl who told you that your life would change and not for the better! I am sorry that her life did not get better with the addition of a precious little baby in it! I am sorry for her baby that its mother feels that way about it!
Everyone of my babies changed my life for the better! I have 5 of them and they are each the joy of my life! I do not know how I ever lived without them!
Your life is not over, it is just beginning!
Tell your Dad. He loves you, he will be mad but he will get over it. He loves you....bottom line.
Blessings
Lady Trinity
2007-01-17 01:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad. He'll know eventually. Don't further upset him by keeping it a secret. A great weight will be lifted off your shoulders.
As for your mom, nevermind her. Don't let her disgust for the world corrupt you and your life.
2007-01-17 01:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cunohans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you are.....just be straight up with him and tell him the truth....if you are very young [under 19] you should consider putting the cild up for adoption. Tell him before your Mom does...it will be easier coming from you. God Bless and good luck
2007-01-17 01:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋