2007-01-17 00:34:37 · 11 answers · asked by CRY$T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
The goal is to make your kid happy. If you are married or living with the one mother then maybe you should be putting that family on the top of your list. The other child is just as important though. Your goal is not to make the mothers happy but your kids. If your kids are happy then there should not be any problems.
2007-01-17 00:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. definitely should have had just one babys mama. my ex now has his THIRD babys mom and atleast one of us are pissed off at all times. the one he's with now though wants him to only do what she wants him to do and thinks he should put his other kids on the back burner for their son and that if he keeps them more than the two days out of the month they normally keep them then he should cut back on my child support. she's money hungry and she's also lazy. she also doesn't want him to call me and only allows him to communicate through text messages. then he wonders why he and i can't just get along!! i tell him because she doesn't allow us to communicate. if i call it's only about the kids and she thinks i'm still trying to get back with him (even though i'm the one who left him he was a total asshole cheated on me and was very verbally abusive) she's a little nuts so that's why he's not able to keep everyone happy he has to deal with a psycho girlfriend and the other two of us! she's always askin him why i always call him when i need someone to get the kids for emergencies....... i'm like um because he's still their dad and still just as responsible as i am for them.
2007-01-17 08:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don;t worry about them, be worried about your children. My ex insists that he has to keep me happy, and I told him, you have to do no such thing. I have no feelings for him and he has no power over me anymore in any aspect of any of my daily life. He likes to think he still does. Do for your kids, and tell the mommas that they need to grow up and quit acting childish.
2007-01-17 09:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly sure what you mean but I would not discuss one mother and child with the other mother and child.
2007-01-17 08:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to keep two women happy at the same time.. it ain't gonna happen
2007-01-17 08:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by J-Rod on the Radio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sorry. Not unless one or both of them could care less about you and what you do.
2007-01-17 09:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you can't please them both... Unless you are currently with on of them!Then that's the only one you have to please! The only ones you have to please right now are the kids that are yours and the mother if you are with her. You got 2 babies mommas and I am sorry but you can't please both if you aren't with them.
2007-01-17 09:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to their kids?
2007-01-17 08:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you did too much pleasing as it is
2007-01-17 08:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION
2007-01-17 08:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by lonestarlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋