My girlfriend's friend is cheating on her bf(theyre in a long distance relationship). Her bf has assummed that she cheats on him and she denied and he accepted(like an idiot, he barely cought her red handed).I know the guy bcus we live in the same city. So i feel bad for the guy..Its just that every weekend this guy calls my girl to go the the club with him and his friends. He always says he needs a dancing partner(a friend told me once dancing is way to peronal to be doing when u have a significant other,he was right). So whenever my girl is at the club this guy dances w/ her like as much as he can. So even when im there hell dance with her. obviously hes flirting w/ her(you get the picture). My girl says hes not but I say bs! So now i dont really feal sorry for this idiot and now i kinda dont like this guy when before we were mutual. So i dont like this guy dancing/flirting w/ my girl..I told my girl i dont like it. so i just want to now if theres anything else i should do?
2007-01-17 00:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by Ammbless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could have him kidnapped and sold into slavery, or...you could trust you girlfriend. I would go as far as telling her it bothers you, but ultimately, she has to be honest and upfront with you. Otherwise, find yourself a new dancing partner.
There's an old saying, if you have a bird in a cage and you open the door and it flys away; it really didn't want to be there, and it wasn't really yours to begin with.
Good luck
2007-01-17 00:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by stretch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your girl and have faith in your relationship. If there were anything going on, why would they dance together even if you're there? How is dancing too personal, unless he's touching parts of her body that he shouldn't?
If you act insecure, you are being immature and she would have a good reason to end the relationship. Just continue to be yourself, after all - that's who she fell for, right?
2007-01-17 00:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo man to tell you the true, Your girlfriend is playing you homie. It's not just him. She really likes this guy.And how small is your city? Is their only one club in your city? Take your girl somewhere else. But if she wants to keep dancing with this guy, Then find yourself a new girlfriend. I am sure that their are more then just your girl in that city.
2007-01-17 00:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would lay down a beating on him. And tell him to stay away from my lady or next time, it's going to be at worst beating. If the bigger than you you just need something to make you equal size to him may be a baseball bat. Don't take no bs because you do not mess with another man's woman.
2007-01-17 00:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say this only once. Don't be no fool. Women love to know that more then one guy is interested even if she never tells or shows it. So you should approach her and the guy and let them know that what they are doing is making you uncomfortable and it has to end now! If she gets upset, yes she is guilty of charge....Respect goes along way! I am a woman I know these things!
2007-01-17 00:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're g/f is dancing with anyother guy in front of you all night long she is being disrespectful to you. Time to end this relationship.
2007-01-17 00:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid!Just because she is dancing with someone else doesn't mean s**t.Next time why don't YOU ask her to dance with you.Tard.
2007-01-17 00:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by lyn4tik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason with him and say that he wouldn't like it either if you were messing with his gf. THen he should understand how you feel or tell him to back off or else.
2007-01-17 00:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few slaps and tell him to stay the puck away from her or you'll burst his balls with a kick.
2007-01-17 00:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is being a jerk, but so is your girlfriend. If she knows it bothers you so much, she should stop doing it so much or just break up.
2007-01-17 00:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋