I know this guy for more than a year, we always used to flirt and knew that given the chance we will end up having sex. Two months ago this happened and we had the greatest of sex. im relatively wealthy and this guys wants to buy shares in a company. I offered to help and during this time he gave me lots of attention. As i wasnt to sure about us, i decided to put the finance on hold.Suddendly he made excuses that he is busy and did not have time to call or text me for 2 weeks. in order to test my suspicions that he is using me, i told me i would go ahead and help me, now is again all over me.. this sounds like he is using me i dont want a relationship with this guy, just sex!! he has been fairly open with me about his girlfriends and what he likes, could it be that i am just a casual aquaintance with whom he enjoys sex with now and then?
2007-01-16 23:48:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you for your money. And is there for the sex as well. But more for the money.
2007-01-16 23:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a typical man. I think the best thing to do, is to be a little bit more like him. I'd just gradually start making yourself a little more unavailable to him. Don't answer all his calls or messages. Say you were busy. He needs to know that you aren't just sitting around pining for him. I know it's hard, but in the long run, it has a lot of potential to bring him around. I'd tell him that the friends with benefits is a great idea, but when you find that special someone, it has to be over. I'd say that you are on a mission to find that person. Just act like you're dating other guys. Even if you aren't. Make that jealous spark come out. If he doesn't get the least bit jealous and things don't work, then you know for sure that he really doesn't care about you and you can decide what to do then.
2016-05-23 23:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely sounds like he is trying to get some financial assistance. If he always seems to be closer with the mention of money. If it was sex, he would keep coming for it regardless of the money situation. did he ask for the money help or did you offer? if he asked, you have your answer. find a new partner. money has never came up with any of my partners, when i used to carry that lifestyle. we did what we did, and parted ways.
2007-01-16 23:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning this you already know what to do. Kick him to the curb. You'll be the only one ending up getting hurt if you continue seeing him so don't get mad at anyone else because you decided to stay. Are you a guy or a girl? I'm confused given the name "Dusty". Hmmnn.
2007-01-16 23:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say,but i really think that the guy is using you..Ur just some sort of booty call..no offense tho..that guy needs ur money..that's all..he doesn't need u..if I'm in your shoes,I'll stop dating him..moreover stop having sex with him..even if i love him but try to think in the long term..you'll fall for him more n more everyday,while he only fall for your wealth..but it's up to u..I'm sure u can find a better man,don't make yourself cheap..again,no offense..sooner or later,wen u can no longer supply his finance,he'll leave u,after u spend million dollar on him..so think about it..im sorry if im not helping..anyway..goodluck!!
2007-01-17 00:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Strange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants your money. He's throwing in the sex as an added bonus. Dump him quick.
2007-01-16 23:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.......... if this man is having sex with you and telling you about the women in his life he only wants you for one thing and I doubt it if he has a very high opinion of you to tell you about the other women. I am sorry. Please stop seeing this man and save yourself for someone who will love you.I'd hate to see you hurt.This man isn't worth it.
2007-01-16 23:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you answered your own question! Enjoy it, and everything in life, for what it is. No more, no less. You are using each other,nothing wrong with that
2007-01-16 23:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dartagnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,sounds to me like hes after you for your money.If i were you Id cut all ties with him now.sounds to me like once you give him what he wants,money in this case hes going to forget all about you.
2007-01-16 23:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by bluenikki2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it. why on earth would u propose a financial help to a MAN? shouldn't he manage his life without any help of a woman?
2007-01-16 23:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋