This guy that i know..we work together..he flirts with me, and he gets close to me sometimes, like leaning on me etc. I catch him looking in my eyes sometimes, or when i talk to him and im too shy to look into his eyes, and i look away, i look back and hes still looking at me. When we talk sometimes he just forgets what hes saying..but then other times..he just becomes distant...what should i do?
2007-01-16 23:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...as well as this..he has known my mobile number for a week now..he didnt ask me, he asked another colleague..but he hasnt text for a drink or such...:(
2007-01-16 23:33:17 · update #1
ask him out
2007-01-16 23:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u can know for sure if he flirts u unless he talk to u about it until that u can't tell him anything about it cos he gonna accuse u "from where do u got this idea", how u feel about it u didn't mention that do u like his flirting do u like the guy? act on that and wait him to start and if u don't just stop him when with a decent conversation if his flirts become obvious
2007-01-17 07:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out hun, he is obviously interested. I love the bit u say when hes lookin in ur eyes thats dead sweet. Neway what have u got to lose? drop ur number on his desk and if he texts u take it from there or ask him for his number and say lets go out for a drink sumtime. Good luck xx
2007-01-17 07:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really into you. So if you like him, then try hold eye contact for a little bit longer or subtly flirt with him. Hopefully he'll realise it and make a move
2007-01-17 07:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships at work are never a great idea, plus depending on the type of work you do, there may be rules your company set out about employee-employee relationships............. exercise caution, but the easiest way is to just ask him, take him for a coffee or something and have a chat!
direct is the best way!
2007-01-17 07:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that what you are dealing with is "infatuation". Read THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman. Try to keep your head on straight, so you don't make too many stupid choices. Realize that Love and Marriage (and sex) are a beautiful gift that the Almighty gave us, and if we take that gift apart, we destroy it!
2007-01-17 07:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your part. Show him you are interested on him by not looking away and giving him some smile, otherwise, he will start to feel his is getting you uncomfortable and change his mind.
2007-01-17 07:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sh**t where you eat......going out with a colleague is most of the time a mistake.......If the relationship goes wrong you have to face him everyday, if he dumps you, you have to see him everyday, if you dump him, you have to see him everyday.....in both cases it's not easy.
trust me don't go there, I've done it and i regretted it.
good luck
2007-01-17 07:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a co-worker to intervene and see what's really up with him if he's interested in you. Then you'll really know if he likes you or maybe he's too shy to tell you you have something on your face. :)
2007-01-17 07:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea, i agree..ask him out. Saves all the worrying..
Itz the 21st century,gurls have their say in dating too
2007-01-17 07:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋