2007-01-16 23:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Abhi M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say liking a guy enough to date him is test number uno. I won't date a guy if I don't think it's worth my time. Not worth my time: liars, cheaters, stealers and mean guys. If I'm attracted to a guy, he probably has a decent character, he's smart, motivated and sweet. As we date, I decide how much I really like the guy. Could I spend the rest of my life with this person? Can I handle the fact that he doesn't pick up his dirty socks? Or that his truck at any given time will generally look like he lives out of it? Or that he'll only dance with me in private and when he's drunk? Or that he can't manage to keep his cell phone in answering range? Or that he's a really picky shopper (more so than me)?
There are really no tests, any smart woman will tell you that. From experience, I've discovered that when I attempted to test a guy I generally don't get the response I want. So, then I get direct with the guy and ask him what I really want to know straight up. When the conversation ends and I feel better, then I know I'm not wasting my time.
No tests, really. Guys don't pay close enough attention to pass a test... much less know they're being tested.
2007-01-16 23:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by mayyouponderthis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for each person based upon their values, belief, and probably a little how their day/week has been going. There might be people who know immediately and do it, known immediately and wait, know immediately and never do it. There there are people who dont know until they are doing it,or who it takes weeks, monthes, years and then they do or they don't. Some who is depends on how much alcohol they have had! Long winded way to say, there is not one set answer and without putting my own morality into it I won't comment if there is one right answer!
2016-05-23 23:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if I was interested in a guy and I found out that he sleeps with a lot of women than that could turn me off, but generally I think it comes down to his personality if he was a nice person then thats a yes!
2007-01-16 23:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no tests all relationship is a risk people act a certain way to get what they want soon as they have it thats when u really see there true colors try to date one for 6 months and if he,s still acting the same by then he,s real
2007-01-16 23:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by affh1st 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth is any guy can pretend to be boyfriend material but not allof them can hold the pretense for too long.
if a guy after 2 mths of dating you, is pushing for sex check him seriously.he is just in it for the conquest
2007-01-16 23:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by beaume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for somone that will really care for who I am ,, It will take time to get to know him .
How he treats you hes mannares, How he keeps hes eyes to himself..
not poor or rich.. has good intentions about realtionships not for fun..
2007-01-16 23:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by amyhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a long checklist in their heads that they go through...
It is really quite mad.. Since men are happy for a woman to have a pulse... CHECK!!! :D
2007-01-16 23:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They go through the horrible task to taking the risk and trying!!!
2007-01-16 23:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by poutanaki4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no test
if you have common likes and dislikes and can hold a conversation other then ummm and ahhhh then just jump and try
2007-01-16 23:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are pretenders, believe u me they can pretend.
2007-01-16 23:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by sore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋