2007-01-16 22:53:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
HOW COULD IT BE WRONG.
2007-01-17 17:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tricky question... do you mean that as in is it wrong to marry someone whom you like, rather than marry someone whom you love... I've thought about that scenario and I think that it would make for a longer, yet less passionate, marriage. An arrangement of friends.
Or
If you are talking about marrying someone whom you like rather than someone whom you don't, then I would suggest you marry the former.
2007-01-17 06:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by JT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to marry someone whom u like but does the person like u. If the person whom u like reciprocates then it will not b a problem but if not thn u should forget abt asking silly question. if both r willing no one can stop u.
2007-01-20 08:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to marry someone whom you like, because liking or loving one another is the foundation of a good and stable marriage. But sometimes even if you like a certain person if he or she is your relative meaning he or she is your cousin in the first degree, it is not right because that is already incest, meaning a sin for us Catholics. It is not also right if someone you like is already married, because that is a sin against God, especially to Catholics where we follow monogamy.
2007-01-17 07:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you should always confirm whether he or she likes you too or not? Because after getting married if you come to know that the person you married has cheated on you or you cheated with him or her then things will go really bad even worse. I am not discouraging you but it's the question of your life....so be careful and try to take the right decision.......
2007-01-18 12:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is bad in it, but do remeber the one whom u r going to marry love you or not.
B'coz u shld marry a person who love u not to the person whom u love.
This is the funda of the life!!!
2007-01-17 07:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that some arranged marriages do very well...love grows with time, and can even be stronger than if in love first.
If you are in love first, sometimes that seems to fade or you forget what you really loved about that person in the first place.
If you like them, you don't have the expections of "love" but with time that person shows you more acts forgiveness, care, selflessness than you may have had in the past, things that we sometimes forget to show others.
2007-01-20 20:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. You should love the person you're marrying. Love with all your heart and all your being.
In all likelihood, the other person loves you. When you can't reciprocate those feelings, why bother making that commitment?
And, honestly, if it's not going to work... why deal with the expensive wedding and expensive divorce?
2007-01-17 10:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by LovrsDrmrsnMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can't settle when it comes to love. You have to love the person you are going to marry. You don't want to marry them, then learn to love them. I think that there would be no passion. You have to have passion and love in a marriage for it to make you happy.
2007-01-20 20:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by tonythelizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like?
You should marry someone you LOVE! Not like. Because everything could go so wrong on you, If you love her, and she loves you. Or the other way around. (if you love him, and he loves you. Which ever.) Then proceed.
2007-01-17 09:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kataxenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong but you must know whether he likes you or not.Because a person can be more happy with the one who loves you than with the one whom you love
2007-01-19 00:40:49 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋