Recently I have been given the opportunity to work things out with my childs mother. We have both been trying hard and we are very close to being together. I told her that I didn't want to have sex with her until we are together as Im afraid my emotions will run wild and I don't want to get hurt if something happens in which we don't end up being with eachother. I'm not sure she wants to have sex with me right now.... When we kiss our kisses are passionate and she always lets me kiss her spots which always gets her aroused but last night she told me she didn't want to have sex with me yet and if I keep kissing her spots she knows we will...even though I told her I wanted to wait until we are together...I honestly want to build our relationship so that its unbreakable...what should I do? What do you think?
2007-01-16 22:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both want to be together she is just taking things slowly as she really wants this to work out...every relationship shes ever been in has failed and left her in pain....She is having a hard time believing that I can love her just as much as she loves me and not hurt her....this is due to our past where we weren't together however she really wanted to be with me but I hurt her badly by not being with her...
2007-01-16 23:39:16 · update #1
Plus on top of that she just got out of a relationship with her ex boyfriend who told her he doesnt really care if she moves on cause there's nothing he can do about it...I'm her childs father...Her relationship ended about 3 to 4 months ago
2007-01-16 23:40:30 · update #2
Physical intimacy plays a strong role in building an unbrekeable relationship. So, there is no point in being finicky about it. Morever, you said you both are emotionally close to each other and that you both intend to be in a perfect relationship.
So, what is the problem ? But yes, since she has said she didn't want to happen it just yet, you had better be a gentleman and respect her wish.
2007-01-16 22:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already responded to part 1, but after reading this, you guys need to ask the question if you do in fact want to get back together. if you cannot even agree on the passion (or lack thereof) that you have for each other, what's the rest of the relationship going to be like. I know this is blunt, but you wanted to know what we thought, so here it is. i really hope you guys can come to some sort of decision as there is a child envolved. once again - good luck!
2007-01-16 22:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u are wrong, why wait ? Sex plays a strong role in building a strong relationship. All relationships are breakable unless we are ready to take time and effort to nuture the relation.
2007-01-16 22:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun arouse her and then not have sex...thats realli bad...if u want to have sex with her then do it..if not ready then don't arouse u and her so that u'd lose control
2007-01-16 23:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, if you have a baby's mama, you've had sex with her before. Why not have sex with her now?
2007-01-16 22:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you arent wrong! jeesh I feel like I have dejavu!
2007-01-16 22:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if u want her give her a good f u c k and she would never leave u just do wat is natural dont wait ;)
2007-01-16 22:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by nabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋