I have known this guy for about 3 years, we have hooked up a couple of times but nothing has ever emerged. Only just before christmas, he saw a friend of mine + asked for my phone no.Now He texts me everyday to c how i am, etc, i know he lilkes me and he knows i like him so I decided to bite the bullet and ask him out, his reply? "We'll have to see" what the hell is that?! if I mention it he avoids the question..... i really don't understand what he is playing at! Why do men see fit to play games? Help!!!!!
2007-01-16 22:35:38 · 10 answers · asked by Baby_Blue_3001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately you gave him the control as soon as you asked him out. he is probably just having a little fun teasing you. throw it back at him and say something like, 'dont wait to long i have other offers'
play the game with him.
2007-01-16 22:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so i had a similar experience once except unlike you i never asked him out.. i didnt have the guts so you already have major points with me. But how do you get back at him? Easy this is what i did and not only did it work i realised how much of a jerk the guy stringing me along was. I turned up to an event that i knew he'd be at and i got my friend and his friends to turn up at this place and meet me there, then i just hung out maybe flirted a bit to and made him insanely jealous and annoyed. He was texting me and i would read it and put my phone back on my bag i ended up hooking up with my current boyfriend that night and the other guy gets bagged out by his mates hope this helps in some way..
2007-01-16 23:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is messign with you. The thing to do is not to ask him WHAT WHEN WHY etc. he texts you, you text back a day or two atfer, when or if convenient for you. Reply along the same lines " sure, sometime when i am free etc". Pull out every time, gently. He'll get the hint.
2007-01-16 22:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dnt no what to say really as hes given u all the signals he likes ya, maybe he is scared if it turns in2 a relationship and hes insecure? no one really knows whats going thru his head so the best thing to do is ask him n if he doesnt ive u a reply then forget him hes not worth it! xx
2007-01-16 22:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it seems he is playing games, there's only one way to fix that, make him jealous!
That will make him stop & think.
& if that doesn't work then he might not really be interested, he might be worried about letting you down by telling you he just wants to be friends.
Good luck
2007-01-16 22:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's an immature jerk. Maybe you should dump him and find some one who isn't so immature. Not all guys are into playing games.
2007-01-16 22:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY from men like this
2007-01-16 22:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from guys like this
2007-01-17 00:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know that.decide accordingly
2007-01-16 22:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give in. find someone better.
2007-01-16 22:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Miami.Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋