I found out my girlfriend cheated on me via Yahoo Answers... I don't know where to go in my life from here, I lived for her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, but I found that not only did she not love me, but she downright loathed me, and cheated on me with three different guys at the same time... I want to ruin her life the same she did to me, but at the same time I want nothing mreo to do with her and I am at the least, confused. She has stated to some of my friends that she is the happiest she's ever been with the guy she cheated on me with, she just seems to be able to move on with her life so easily after she tore mine apart... I guess my wuestion is, what should I do now, as this entire experience has hurt not only my confidence but it seems to have damaged the amount of trust I can put in another, especially girls, and I think it may have damaged me emotionally. Any help would be greatly accepted and appreciated...
2007-01-16 21:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by oblong127 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over her by getting on with your life. She is shallow, sleazy and generally not the girl worthy of you.
Having been on the witnessing end of some of the crazy things people do when they are hurting, don't do anything foollish.
Believe me, it does get better and when you least expect it, you might meet someone who is great and will always be there.
Just don't become a hermit and mope and be depressed all day. When your friends invite you to go out, do it! Get out ehere and mix it up.
You will also have the satisfaction of knowing that word will probably get back to her that you're back on the prowl....
Go get 'em tiger!
2007-01-16 21:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this girl never really cared about you in the first place or she would never have treated you the way she did.
I know its hard when something like this happens and people tell you to move on, she isnt worth it or there are plenty more fish in the sea right now saying things like that t you isn't going to help.
Time is a great healer and in time you will learn to trust other girls remeber we are not all the same.
What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
2007-01-16 21:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by katy23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, this really is a tough situation, don't bother with her anymore, just leave her alone, and find yoursellf some-one who really cares about you, I know, at this stage you don't think that there is anybody ellse, and you think that all girls are liars, and cheaters... It's not true there are some pretty descent girls out there you just need to find the right one for you.
And if you find her, don't make the same mistake I did... Trust her from the beginning, remember she is not the same person as your'e previous girl and she deserves your trust from day 1!!!!!
Good luck...
2007-01-16 21:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take heart man imagine what would have happened if you had married her take it as a blessing in disguise. there is someone special for you somewhere just try not to show her that you are hurt that way she will feel bad coz im sure she read your mail and is laughing her head off right now. if it was so easy for her to move on and forget about you then it means she never cared. im sure true love is waiting for you somewhere and rmb revenge is not the solution
wish you the best in your love life
2007-01-16 21:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by ct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that it sounds she is very inmature (I guess she will be forgiven for being that if she is 18). then maybe not suitable for 30yr me to judge.
there are many possibilities in your situation. one will never know withoout open communication. I know it's easy said than done, but you have to let go, and go thru' the miserable time of..... but keep in mind you will recover one day, slowly and gradually. whatever she did is her own problem - whether sleeping around OR cant deal with relationships. unfortunately you are involved with her and got hurt by her action. hope you get out of the situation soon.
2007-01-16 21:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that a song from James Blunt fit you " Goodbye my lover, goodbye my friend"
Just move on... She is immature and stupid. Don't follow her path, no matter the hurt you feel inside of you. If your friend know how to judgge .. they will see how wrong that person you dated is harmful... you have you life... good you realized and have chance to retrieve from that girl.
If she does that to you she must have issues psychological speaking. .. She might had used you to relieve her mental issues... I suggest you move on your feelings and life....don't revenge.. because she will have her own consequences ....
2007-01-16 21:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by xsquash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy you must not devote yourself to "ruin" her life-- because how can you possibly do that without commiting a crime and getting her BF whacked? So dont. Just ignore her, and dont care about anything that she does--- its hard but go out and meet new girls, theres plenty
2007-01-16 21:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need this in your life do you? Once a cheater always a cheater! You deserve someone better in your life. Talk with a counselor maybe that will help.
2007-01-16 21:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suspect the reason she left you is that you are a Drama King and a little bit of a whiner ..."damaged me emotionally" . .. Really, THAT is a bit much! Take a tip from her and "get over it." Move on, find somebody else instead of doing the "poor me" act. It is unattractive and pathetic.
2007-01-16 21:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
What goes around comes around, It will come back to her. All you need to do is to try and deal with this whole issue by yourself trying to get back at her will hurt you even more
2007-01-16 21:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋