This guy i'm dating always has to make it appear that he has so much to do and has so many friends to hang out with. I feel like its a competition just to hang out together or go on a date. He also never asks me, i always ask him. When I talked to him about it he said that I was overreacting and that he's not playing games or anything. He makes it seem that this is completely normal that I always have to be the one to call and set meetings. Is it?
2007-01-16 21:01:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds as though he may a bit self-indulged and if you feel that he is treating you unfairly ...'what are you still chasing him for?' Girl, never allow someone to make you always have to chase after him. Your beauty alone is to make men stand at attention and follow after you not the other way around! Why you think we spend all that money on make-up and clothes and nails and hair and perfume? Not to mention risking our lives in those god-awful spiked heels. Stop chasing him and I bet he'll chase you. He's making you look DESPERATE! You are not desperate, I know.
2007-01-16 21:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 06:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not normal at all. What is wrong with you girl? If your guy is not trying to make you feel like you are the most important thing in his world, it is a 99.9999999999999% chance that you are by far no where near important to him. For he is still in the BOY stage of life. If you want to always be 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or less in your guy's life, go ahead and stay with him, cause that's all you will ever get.
2007-01-16 21:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are NOT overreacting. He is a player and likes to feel important.
The fact that you always call him, makes him feel important and feeds his ego. Something you do NOT need to do. something you should not do.
A decent guy worth your time would be someone who puts you somewhere near the top of his priorities. NOT towards the bottom.
Dump him andmake sure you tell him why.
If he cant be bothered to show an initiative now and then with you, how is he going to show initiative in the bigger hurdles life throws your way?
Dump Him! trust me.
2007-01-16 21:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try "hanging" with a C.E.O.
Is he a C.E.O.?
Those types you hardly ever see anywhere, and yet cause so much damage and make your friend's world so much more complicated than it needs to be, just by their manipulating him around and making it difficult for him to EARN A LIVING.
We've all been downsized by C.E.O.'s.
We've all been Wal Marted to oblivion.
So Mr. Important isn't so important after all, is he?
It's all about perception and knowing our place in the capitalist chain.
2007-01-16 21:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I handle guys like that, is by letting some other girl handle them. Seriously, why would you want to date someone that makes you feel like you have to be scheduled into his day planner in order to be with him? I'd tell him that obviously he is much too busy to make time for me, and then move on.
2007-01-16 21:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS playing games, no matter what he says. You should stop calling him and asking him to see you. If he lets this go and doesnt start calling and asking you, he is not worth your time. If this is the case he is not really interested in you anyway.
2007-01-16 21:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHhhhh... The cat and mouse situation. For whatever reason, he's NOT INTERESTED IN YOU right now. I know that it's hurts for you to know this, but being an egg on a needle is not your job.
Find someone who likes you, not someone who's just considering you. Trust me. There's a difference!
2007-01-16 21:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by beenthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him and explain what you think and feel. If he doesn't agree, or thinks that you are just being selfish, maybe he is not the right guy for you. He should be the one looking after you and arranging everything to make YOU happy :)
Good Luck!! :)
2007-01-16 21:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called male ego and there is nothing you can do about it. If he thinks you are overreacting now how is he going to be when you are about ready to have his kid and he wants to watch the game? What a loser.
2007-01-16 21:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋