me and this girl broke up nearly 2 years ago, and we never really talked untill a couple months ago, she im'd me saying sorry about the way things ended and such, and weve been talking for the last few months pretty much every day. i still really like her, but im not sure how to show it, or what to do... i would really like to be her bf again, but i dont want to loose her as just a friend... it seems like sometimes theres still some feelings between us, but i cant be sure. any ideas on hints or little things i could do to show her that i still like her as more than a friend?
2007-01-16 20:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by tupersrooper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is great that you can still be friends after a break up. I would wait for a signal from her if she wants any more again. It is good she has im'd you. You need to think about what happened to cause your breakup in the first place and work from there. Don't make the same mistake twice.
2007-01-16 20:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ill and he desires to end the dating. His ex is pleased with this? Thats merely ill. She could have relatively low self-well worth to think of its okay to be somebody's sideline chick. She could comprehend she merits greater useful than that. he's a jerk for permitting this habit. yet he does not want to harm his contemporary gf? Yeah marvelous. How does he think of she's gonna experience whilst she reveals out the reality? She's gonna throw a occasion? i think of not! She's gonna be pissed on the reality that she had no say so in this twisted affair. he's sexin the ex and his contemporary....HELLOOOOO!!!! can we are saying illnesses and STD's waiting to ensue? however the damaging gf does not even comprehend! Thats completely not honest to her she could have a say in wether she desires to handle this dating or not. He desires to come again sparkling and rapid. on condition that he desires to work out and function intercourse along with his ex plenty then why don't you be together with her? yet atleast he desires to guy up and tell his contemporary gf howdy!
2016-12-16 06:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason she is an ex. It is easy to forget stuff when there has been such a big amount of time but in the end don't justy remember the rainbows and butterflies in the relationship it will only make it harder
2007-01-16 20:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think it is natural and common for ex lovers to have feelings of some kind of love towards each other. And I think that if you take your time, both of you will find the right way to decide weather you want to be just friends or more then that.
2007-01-16 20:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure your feeling towards her is real. not an impulse.
feelings can be mixed up. Some mistaken close friends as BGR, and they turn out hring each other. ask yourself whether do you really like her.dun end up hurting her.
if the answer is yes i realli like her, try to find out whether she still has the same feeling towards u. if she has den there u go. if not, u can still remain as close friends. =)
2007-01-16 20:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by clover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush things bra!just flow with the rythm.u'll get signs on the way which tell u that now is the tym,then u can tell her ur story,now's still early i think, provided u dont andastand her,u might freak her out or she might take u back...i'v got a similar situation but im just acting cool.the tym will ***.GUD LUCK!
2007-01-16 21:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by chrismenzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to lunch, keep it casual, you'll know by the way things go, conversation, attitude, etc., whether she feels the same. Good luck!
2007-01-16 20:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to lunch, keep it casual
2007-01-16 20:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Harshad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't man
2007-01-16 20:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by yrsong19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋