Ok here's my dilemma. I've been single for about a year (my choice following a few stupid boyfriends). I met someone over Christmas in my local pub. He asked me out a couple of times but I turned him down. Only because I decided that I would get to know someone as a friend in future before going out with them (damage limitation!) and I know nothing about this guy.
We agreed to meet up on New Years Eve and to be honest, he was a bit ignorant and left me to walk home from the pub on my own at 3 am (yeah, nice!). He texted me a couple of days after to apologise but I was so angry that I turned him down again.
Now it's been a couple of weeks and I think I might have been a bit hasty. I would like to go out for a drink with him but I'm a bit scared about doing the dating thing again. I do see him out but it's nothing more than a quick "hello". What should I do? Should I text him and ask him if he wants to meet up or what!
2007-01-16 20:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be hes just used to being single where all his single guy and girl mates all make their own way home each night.
Or his girl mates can kick ***.
Maybe he's used to going home on his own at night... or thinks you dont want him to see where you live yet as taking you home may near hor coffee and shagging.
Since you turned him down guys think this means girl dont like me...
Guys are logical like that... they are only mean to people who dont like them and nice to those who do.
They dont play psyche hard to get games.
Look you tow need to meet up and be honest how you feel.
2007-01-16 21:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You turned him down for a reason and if you go out again with higher expectations thinking he will be better and hes not then your going to be let down and disappointed, but if you think there is more to him then text him or when you see him out ask if he wants to go for a coffee or summat and if he acts the same this time you know hes not worth it. But you know first impressions are important as you cant change them xx
2007-01-16 22:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has demonstrated to you quite clearly the sort of person he is. If he felt that he could not walk you home then at least he could have called and paid for a taxi for you. What ever was he thinking about, or not as the case maybe.
This is an unthinking man that puts the male gender to shame.
DO NOT even think about talking to him or see him again.
He placed you in great danger and acted like an ar-se hole.
2007-01-16 21:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldn't!! that's your problem, ur meeting all the wrong guys - i mean meeting them in pubs and them letting u walk home alone at 3am in the morning? rather meet a great loving guy some other place than in a pub.... I personally made my bf promise me that no matter how much we had to drink or where we are and we have a fight - that he would never leave me and let me walk home by myself!! These days its not safe to do it!!
2007-01-16 20:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 06:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious you like this guy. Ring him up ask him out for a drink if he asks for a date tell him you will go on a 'trial' date and tell him why's and wherefore's, if he likes you and the rules he will understand, if not what have you lost. If you don't do something about it you will never know will you. Good Luck.
2007-01-16 20:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Branded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give anyone a miss if they let me walk home on my own at 3am.I think your damage limitation approach is a good idea but I would give this guy a miss.
2007-01-16 20:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ally32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw the **** in leeds liverpool canal and leave him be...letting you walk home at that time of morning is not gentleman like,there is plenty of men out there who would be your suitor just dont rush into things..christmas and new year partys bring too much relationship problems
2007-01-16 20:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the simply fact that your thinknig about it means you do want to meet up with him, your just scared it wont turn out the way you want... bu then again maybe it will turn out beautiful and you will end up being very happy together, just go for it and enjoy your self lifes to short xxxxx good luck
2007-01-16 22:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by DizzyCutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is clearly no man and definately no gentleman to leave a vulnerable woman to walk alone at that time of the morn. so imo id leave this one alone and find a guy who can treat you like a proper lady x
2007-01-16 20:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋