oh ladies don't say thats not true now because if i was a nice guy your eyes are off me and onto the bad boy right? It sucks but thats the only way men can get laid now.
2007-01-16 20:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by michael h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to go for older women. They have been thru all the bad boys and finally realized theyve just been used and are ready to settle down with a nice guy.
2007-01-16 20:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think theres a bit more to it than that. Often the "bad boy" is good looking or attractive in some way, got x factor etc or charisma. So he gets a lot of attention from the opposite sex so he can get away with being disrespectful to women as there always another women ready to replace the women who has had enough of being treated badly. It isnt enough for the less popular guys to start treating women badly they would be just laughed at and get even less dates.
2007-01-16 20:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by browneyestrish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wrong.
You mustn't change yourself for a relationship, and if you have to then the relationship isn't right for you.
If women don't like you the way you are...then thats their problem, not yours, so don't go changing for them, find someone that likes you for who you are.
I know i'd much prefer a nice, caring guy that a bad boy that doesn't give me much respect, its common sense.
2007-01-16 20:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be predictable, if that's where you're going with this. You have to have confidence, you can't annoy them with constant attention. Most hotties are annoyed with the constant string of compliments they get from guys. You have to be able to make flirting "fun" and "unpredictable". You're not quite there yet, but yes, being a total asshole is a BETTER place to start than being a nice guy.
2007-01-16 20:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad, but largely true, at least for younger people. When you get a little older women see more value in the nice guy. Go for older women to be appreciated. Stay nice! Those little girls who want bad boys aren't really worth your time.
2007-01-16 20:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that's true, but infact the bad boy will get a bad girl, when you looking for girl that doesn't mean you have to find any girl, i'm sure there are good and nice girls around, just be funny, be yourself, don't be like king in the front of them, otherwise they will kick your ***.
good look is importent thing for girls.
2007-01-16 20:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. If you are not getting *any*, it is because of you, not your "good guy" image. My husband is the sweetest, most loving man I have ever met. There is no way I would have dumped him for a bad boy when we were dating.
2007-01-16 20:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys are more likely to have one night stands and short term relationships... it's the good guys that girls stick around for in the long term.
2007-01-16 20:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Professional face-melter® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't generalize like that. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate someone doing that to you.
All you seem to be concerned with is getting laid, so congratulations! Maybe you really are a jerk.
Heads up...jerks attract jerks
2007-01-16 20:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking to get laid, you go for the bad boy.
If you are looking for something that is more then just sex, you go for the good guys.
That is how many people think, women and men.
2007-01-16 20:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋