The guy that I've liked for 3 years,is finally trying to show me that he likes me back.But the thing is,he's super hott,wanted by many,and pretty popular,plus he's a junior.And I'm a 9th grader,overweight,and not popular at all really.I'm pretty I think,but why does he want to be with a fat kid when he could have some beautiful girl?Am I being too hard on myself?
2007-01-16 19:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you're being too hard.
2007-01-16 19:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a guy, sometimes "looks" can drive him one way, but it doesn't mean true happiness. He could fall in love with you quite easily. A guy, smart or abit dense, can be very unpredictable.
Not too much information, but if you two have been talking to each other and have a good time, and he's showing you affection, he loves you or just have a crush that could grow and expand. But why would he if you are what you say (though I doubt it)? This bonding allows the guy to love you for you, and love can do many things. Looks are just a first opinion, but the true inner beauty of the soul is what makes things click.
Take it from this guy ;) I've fallen in love with people whom others would be suggestive because of just some small, meaningless looks..
2007-01-16 19:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Some Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off yes your being way to hard on yourself! so what if hes really hot, a junior, and wanted by many! and so what if your not all that popular! that doesnt matter to him so why should it matter to you? if he likes you then there is a reason! oh well if your a little overweight! you need to stop judging yourself and tell yourself your are GORGEOUS inside AND out! a guy likes a girl who is comfortable with the way she is! i say you go in for the kill! and dont listen to what others think and say! other girls will be jelous because you have something they cant have! trust me im talking from expereince! good luck!
2007-01-16 19:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~*unbreakable*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He flirts with u as u said in last questions ...n u said he looks for u ...then for sure he loves u. Now accept that he likes u. U r pretty ok.Do think that every hot guy want a slimmest girl ...its not so...Many guys like a medium built one....Any extra pounda on u doesnt matter at all....So i know the mentality of these guys ..they want gals to take initiative ..because they are hot ....he is having GF u said in last question...that of no problem....now pls dont JUDGE who he likes --me or her ...or other ...The judging a person will always lead u nowhere ....What goes of urs if he loves u and her both....So be a good friend of him...just go to him..and he is ur junior ..so he wont take initiative...u only have to take....Talk to him clearly that u like him...andu would like to date him ...if he like u he will surely date u ...Then u can know him ....
So stop judging him...u have no right to do so...Just give him full independence....Thats the way love is..... A guy can love many girls untill he finds a real love so go on..n try urself....
2007-01-18 21:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sam003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you !!! End of story !!! Go for it - you are his beautiful girl !!! You may not realise just how spunky you are because your self esteem may be a little low. Let this boy into your life and you might just discover that you have more to offer the world than you may realise. School is tough and can knock your self esteem but what goes on between two people is special and you don't have to fit into a stereotype to find love. Grab this opportunity and remember of all those girls he could have chosen - he chose you !! XX
2007-01-16 19:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it happen yes you are being to hard on your self but that's how it works sometimes when i was in school i was over weight but i talked to some of the popular kids only because they new me from home and new the real me maybe he sees the real you and he wants to get to know the real you he might see that you are a pretty person inside and out don't worry about it to much just let it happen most over weight people are the ones that are the prettiest just remember that i hope that i have helped you some how
2007-01-16 19:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nikkey A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is attracted to you, you should take that as a compliment and see something good about urself build up ur confidence, think outta of all the popular "good looking" girls he is wanting you. I think not all guys are shallow and plus every one likes different shapes and sizes. My sisters boyfriend is a example hes really good looking and popular but he chose to go out with my sister whos not extremely good looking and overweight he chose to go out with her out of heaps of good looking girls. I think u need to build ur confidence up and stop being so hard on urself either he finds u attractive or he see's ur inner beauty ether way u r desirable.
2007-01-16 20:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are way too hard on yourself! Have more self confidence please! I am sure maybe you have just a few extra pounds and you are really pretty! If you really fel insecure anout your wieght, loss it! And the guy sound nice to me, try to talk and hang out with him, what can go wrong? I wish you the best of luck!!!!!!!!!^_^
2007-01-16 19:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you maybe the kind of girl he likes. Not all guys like popular girls.You really need to feel better about yourself and who you are then guys will see that and want you.
2007-01-16 19:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are very pretty, in many different ways. That's why he likes you. Those so-called "beautiful" girls are probably not as great as they might seem.
God bless.
2007-01-19 22:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being hard on yourself and being popular carries a burden as well.
2007-01-16 19:45:11 · answer #11 · answered by J W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋