I have had a the same problem, I was afraid I would make myself look foolish by say something stupid, or I might offend someone. As I got older (grandma here) I started not worrying, so much about what others think, of me or my opinions. Even if people disagree on a subject, it doesn't always mean they are right and you are wrong. A lot of times, it is just a difference of opinion, I think, then you should try to agree to disagree.That can be difficult at times, some people are very adamant about subjects they are passionate about. But, you have a right to your opinion and to express them. Although, I think you should do it in a respectful way and try to be open to others viewpoint. You could take a class in public speaking, a lot of community colleges have credit and non-credit classes to improve your communication skills. I think it would boost your confidence and they give you pointers on how to carry on affective conversations.
Good luck and keep in touch with yourself
2007-01-16 20:11:47
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answered by galichealer 5
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Try to talk in a group, and tell your story, make any story, and then gradually you will feel confident and no more nervous, I had the same problem, and I did the same , believe me, it's easy and simple way
2007-01-16 20:39:18
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answered by Neighbour 5
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prepare nicely. recognize your subject matter interior-out. preparation your speech! Public talking is the large form a million concern in maximum individuals, so that you at the instantaneous are not on my own. concentration your speech on some key factors or perspectives on the concern. previously presentation, do deep respiratory that can help you you cool down. in the course of the speech, smile and tutor enthusiasism !
2016-10-17 01:51:26
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answered by ? 4
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when you do public speaking....focus on one person....capture your one audience......and talk....it will seem more like a conversation..
instead of trying the group things......
know ur material well...that gives confidence to improvise...if you need 2
remember you are speaking cause they do want to hear from you
good luck
2007-01-16 19:30:41
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answered by Jonathan L 3
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