do you ever feel like you have no personality at all?

Question

i have no hobbies, no friends, i dont play a sport, i'm not particularly good at anything. i'm just that quiet kid who doesn't talk to anyone and who everything things must be really smart except i'm not, and i'm not even getting good grades anymore. i mean, whenever i have free time i can't think of anything to do, except watch tv and if there's nothing good on tv then i'm stuck.

Answer 1

Yep. Everyone feels like that sometimes. But it will pass. I promise. By the time you hit 20 your personality will be OUT there!
I dont know you but obviously you are already a very deep thinker.
I would imagine you would be able to really appreciate great art, literature and music. Philosophy too.
You DO have a personality. What makes you cry? Laugh? These things are part of what we call 'personality'.
So you like to watch TV. That makes you a visual person. What do you like to watch? Do you like the President? These are all part of your 'personality'. (conservative v liberal?)
With the pressures of school, its little wonder that you want to relax in your spare time.
Please trust me, the school years can be one of the most stressful in your whole life! I have met noone as judgemental as teenage girls! (I know its a stereotype and a generalisation BUT teenagers are notoriously hard on each other)
Dont be so hard on yourself. It'll work out!

Answer 2

You know that has to be one of the more interesting questions I've read in a while. You obviously enjoy thinking... I would say your hobby is watching tv... I highly recommend that you try reading books instead of television... you'll get so much more out of a book than most tv shows. Here is something that I've done in the past.. Pick out a book that is already made into a movie... read the book and then watch the movie.. compare them and tell someone what you think about it. Keep in mind you do have a personality and it seems it's a very laid back one at that. Also keep in mind that in order to get good at things you need to first like it, keep doing it, and try to figure out how to get better at it... this is a simple way to start building a hobby or sport that you will eventually get better at. Also keep in mind it could take a few different hobbies or sports until you find one that suits you best.

Answer 3

Not at all, I have several.

But seriously now, you should talk to someone; it is likely that you are depressed and nothing is going to get better unless you take some positive action for yourself. I know, I've been there; when I was in high school, I was a lot like you (hell, in many ways I still am like that). It's not that you have no personality, it is that you don't know where you fit in. If you work at it, you can find that place. I wish you luck.

Answer 4

you may not have all those stuffs you said, you may be that person you described, but that doesn't mean you don't have a personality. Everyone has their own personality. And i think you are just the introvert kind of person. You feel like you are most happy when you are alone, and you are most active and energized when people are not around. i myself was a little bit introvert before. but i learned to get along with people and it feels good to have someone out there to talk to. i'm not an outgoing person, too, but i try to do some stuff to get that feeling of loneliness away. try it..

Answer 5

I'm exactly like you except I'm 18, I never talk to anyone in classes or anything. Are you religious? you can email me, it'd be nice to talk to someone like me.

Answer 6

Start a hobby, talk to people, you have to be good at something...It is scientificly impossible to not be good at "SOMETHING". You'll find it!

Answer 7

you are mistake
speak with the people
you will see
you are very important

Answer 8

get your mind out of the gutter!

Answer 9

never