2007-01-16 17:58:25 · 18 answers · asked by LucyInTheSky 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I just wanted to say thank you for all of the words of support and encouragement. I'm only 29yrs old and losing my mom has been terribly hard. It's hard to believe that something like yahoo answers can make the world feel smaller and make you feel a little bit better..but it does.OXOX
2007-01-16 18:18:33 · update #1
Yes, I have great faith and so did my mom.
2007-01-16 18:58:08 · update #2
Hi sweetie, No it's not crazy, I lost my mum 71/2 months ago to cancer and she also visits me in my dreams. You must have been very close to her as I was very close to my mother. Many people say this happens because it has been very recent but I hope the dreams never go away as this makes me smile every morning when I wake up. Although I am feeling quite depressed after the death of my mother and having a hysterectomy life carries on and our mother's would not like us to feel like this. God Bless you!
2007-01-17 05:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by superstar68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not crazy. It's wonderful that you still have that time with her even if it is just a dream. I know that at 29 she must have very much been your very best friend and I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine having to be without mine. Keep your faith as it will serve you well and know that she will always be with you in your heart and memories.
2007-01-17 20:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My wife died years ago from ovarian cancer, and within a month I woke up to see her standing at the foot of the bed. I was groggy and simply said, "You're dead." She disappeared. I've met her numerous times in dreams since then, the circumstances changing as I worked my way through the grief of her loss.
2007-01-17 02:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this isn't crazy it's your mother still being their for you just because she's not with you in a physical presence doesn't mean that she isn't there in a deeper way may be this is her way of helping you grieve for her and to let you know that she will always be with you, you are very lucky to have someone that loves you that much and still worries about you.
2007-01-17 02:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Katprsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were crazy there'd be millions of 'crazy' people!!
'NO' it's not crazy, it's 'wonderful' dear!!
Even though your mother cannot be with you in the flesh, she can
sure be with you in 'spirit'.
And your dreams are just a confirmation that, although her body is gone, she 'will' always be with you..
The agony of losing a loved one sometimes seems unbareable,
BUT you can turn that agony into 'joy' and 'gratefulness', knowing
her 'love' will 'ALWAYS' comfort you>
Not sure if you are Christian or any other faith, but Christ is a
wonderful comforter when we need consoling, and 'HE' will
always give you the strength to go on!! 'HE did me'!!
2007-01-17 02:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How beautiful to have your mother visit you. Of course it is natural since it is just recently that she passed on. You will revisit many memories from now until you leave this earth, especially during those special occasions, such as birthdays, Mother's Day, Christmas, any occasion that you celebrated with her. Treasure your memories of her forever.
2007-01-17 02:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not crazy, that is just part of the healing process. This does happen to everyone who has ever lost a loved one. I had something similar happen after my dad died.
2007-01-17 02:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by indygurl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about the loss of your mother. You are not crazy, you are grieving. May God comfort during this time and always.
2007-01-17 16:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry , my mom gone from earth now too. When my pain worst she would come to me in my dreams, though i wouldn't exactly call them dreams. Its hard for them to come they might not always seem normal but they are trying very hard to comfort you. xo
2007-01-17 02:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by holly j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my mom died 19 years ago and she still is in my dreams sometimes.
2007-01-17 02:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Desert 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋