I fell in deep love with my friend's bro...(more of an acquaintance now) ...I seriously thought I was over him...I was enjoying life and all was good. So, I finally decided to befriend him, but I have come to realize that maybe that wasn't such a good idea-this made me inadvertently start thinking about him, and it hurts because I never see him at all....God only know when I'll see him again. It's not like we're buddy buddy with each other. He accepted my friendship via myspace, I'm sure he doesn't like me like that-plus he's 24, and I'm almost 20-and I have known them for 6 years, and well him-he wasn't around much when I was close with her, so it's not like he knows me. Any who, how did you deal with this? I think time and prayer. Thanks.
2007-01-16 17:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Sometimes we think we are over someone, when in reality we aren't. If they walk into our lives again, old feelings come to the surface. The only thing you can do is, just try to push those feelings aside, if you want to be his friend. That's about all you can do.
2007-01-16 17:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lately I have noticed a lot of questions on here that make the mistake of believing that myspace friendship indicates something more. It's just a website, and making a "friend" or not there is not such a big deal. Don't let your heart get fooled into thinking that it means something -- guys don't often read stuff into things like this in the same way that girls do. I agree with you that probably time is a good way to move on with your life. I wish you all the best.
2007-01-17 01:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult for me to just be a friend to and ex-lover, boyfriend etc. I don't know how some people do it. I think people who say they can be friends with and ex are just kidding them selves. Truthfully, I think it is a doomed attempt to be, oh so sophisticated. I believe love relationships have a dynamic affect on your heart and soul. I will always look at my old lovers, one's I was so intimate with, in the dfferent light than just a friend. Also, when I break up with someone, I will often think of them and have regretful and sad feelings of loved lost. Listen to your inner voice, reexamine and reaffirm the reasons you broke up. Be very careful to not confuse emotional feelings with truth.. Sometimes, you can mistake reality with wishful thinking. Also, remember there are plenty of people out there looking for love.Who knows the next guy you meet, might make you think, what did I see in the guy, what was his name?. Good Luck and Keep in touch with yourself.
2007-01-17 03:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by galichealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys point of view: Just tell him, whats the worst that can happen, he says thank you? Guys never mind when a woman tells him that she enjoys his company.
2007-01-17 01:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋