That was confusing.But anyways,I've liked this guy for close to 3 years,and I've never been able to get over him no matter how many times I've tried.And I held on to him for well over two years without us speaking a single word to each other.Well finally,he talked to me,and he was flirting with me,which is odd since we never talked before.Well I think I was trying to move on when he started talking to me,which I think is odd cuz of all the times he couldve talked to me and he chooses the time I'm most able to fall into his trap again.Well my question is,does anyone else think that God has something in plan for us?I really believe that,but I want some outsiders opinions.
2007-01-16 17:37:07 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is only one person that can answer that question..and its not me..or anyone else that will leave you answers in here..that person is God himself...and if you really want to know if God placed this guy on earth just for you ..you should ask him..pray that he will guide you the right way..that he will show you the right person you should be..that he will bring to you that right person..and in prayer just ask God...God..is this person(whatever the dude's name is) I am meant to spend the rest of my life with? ...and God will answer you in time..he might not answer you straight away..but he will answer you when he is ready and when he knows that you are ready to know the answer...so pray and listen out carefully for his respond..cause he WILL answer you. goodluck.
2007-01-16 17:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had the exact same thoughts when I was a teenager and had my first serious boyfriend. I had a VERY hard time letting go of him because of the intense emotions I considered to be true love, even though I was frequently in pain over this love. I would just offer to you what I wish I had been told at the time... try your best to zoom out in perspective and consider that you could have many loves in your lifetime. Don't take things so seriously, just go with the flow. Enjoy the feeling for what it is, but don't let it consume you.
2007-01-16 18:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by raya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this your first crush or boyfriend? That could be why you are stuck on him. It takes awhile to get over him, as he will always hold a special place in your heart. But, that doesn't mean you should hook up. It could be like a fantasy coming true so you are making it out to be more than it is.
By the way, boys don't want girls who are always available and who they know want them. Once they see you are moving on, they start feel avoided and come after you. It's the thrill of the chase.
God does have someone special for you, but you will not have to ask if it's right...when you meet him, you will know.
2007-01-16 17:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by FrazzledMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think indeed there is a special mate for you, but this guy isn't necessarily it. The lady below (Queen Latifa, or ??) has the answer.
We get in such a rip roaring hurry sometimes, we don't allow enought time for the right one to come along. Due to our impatience, when they arrive on the scene, we are married, committed, tied up or what ever.
Don't press the issue. Personally, I'd say after 3 years if nothing has developed from this guy, I'd say it was all you. Let it go and get on with life.
2007-01-16 17:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation. From my expericene - get to know him first and foremost! What do you have in comon?Someone told me "Follow your heart." Now I know better.
Jeremiah 17:9 - The heart is deceitfully wicked above all things. Who can understand it? So I say go with FACT! What do you know to be true.? Try to remove your feelings. Feelings tend to lead people into traps. Some traps are very hard or impossible to get out of! Use your God given head!
2007-01-16 17:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms positioned God first and function faith interior the plan He has for you. do not enable this female develop into more effective major than your relationship with God. If she is "the only' for you, God would not in basic terms enable her walk faraway from you. perchance there is yet another female available that you in common words don't be conscious in the present day, reason perchance (no longer declaring you're) you're not any further somewhat in search of what God needs for you on your existence. i'm no longer declaring that you do not positioned God first on your existence, do not get me incorrect...yet, the major factor of my "answer" is that, in basic terms positioned God first, and once you pray to God, pray for what he needs on your existence! :)
2016-10-15 08:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has everything to do with your life if you allow Him to have control. Ask God if this is the best person to be the "man" in your life. If you have *any* reservations, pray & ask God to direct you. Protect yourself by asking yourself, "Is this man seeking God's guidance in finding a life partner? Does he seem to genuinely be interested in ME?" If you feel he is not & he is only after what you can "give" him, wait for God to direct you to another, more worthy, partner.
2007-01-16 17:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Justified 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really think so. But I realize now that I've given up too many oppurtunities for a relationship to begin, I may have been to pushy but now I'm reformed.
If you feel that it is right for you to have a relationship with someone, by all means ask if they like you.
2007-01-16 17:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by thehutch86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had been in love with someone for 6 years...
i thought the whole time, that i can never get over with that person/....
but i did...
and now i am happily in love with my fiance...
look, if you think and if you obviously see that there is no possiblity between the two of you.. get over with that feelings...
you can if you really want to.
that is, again... if you really want
2007-01-16 17:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human wouldnt want to lose their fans, so say %@$#@ off its been done before, your time is up,,, you are not mine, I m not yours.... move and find the right person for you,,,,
God has indeed a plan for us... but thats just that dude's plan not to losing a fan who admires him,,,, thats past,, move on..
2007-01-16 18:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Phunagex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋