Um,this guy I like,and I'm pretty sure he likes or liked me back,but now he has a girlfriend.Well,we used to flirt,but not anymore.So tonight,he patted me gently on the back(barely able for me to feel lit)and he asked how I was,and then just kept walking,what does this mean?And I really want him to keep liking me,so how can I make myslef stick in his head?
2007-01-16 17:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First,restrain your desire to be forward and outwardly flirt with him. Since you know he has a girlfriend,that would make him doubt your good character.When you are around him and he speaks to you, first glance up and quickly look into his eyes and smile and then quickly look down as if trying to gain your composure. Always smile and be very polite and if he asks how are you doing again,respond with a quick glance and smile that you are fine and thank him for asking. Then ask him if he is ok. If he starts a conversation,keep it general and do the look up,quick,bashful smile as often as you feel is appropriate. When you look up into his eyes for the quick look,lock your eyes in his ever so briefly each time. Don't be too eager. Everyone likes someone with a little mystery. No one wants to read a book they already know the ending to. Be sweet,coy,mysterious, bashful and always lady like. If he is interested,he'll look you up again if he breaks up with this girl.God bless you and good luck!
2007-01-16 17:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay waisting your time, there are other options.
he patted you gently on the back (you were barely able to feel it), meaning it he was just acknowledging the fact that he knows you, and probably reminding himself that you got and had the hots for him. and he asked how you was, and then just kept walking- he was just saying hello to acknowledge that he knows you, and the fact that he kept walking shows that he his "attraction" emotions are strongly tied to his girlfriend, and he is not trying to make himself remember and revive the emotions he had for you (though it raised his self esteem to remember you had the hots for him, which gave him more confidence with his girl that night). He probably walked towards a good friend or something or someone he has no attraction to.
2007-01-16 17:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by girl V 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not a dumb question.Maybe he patted you lightly on the back as an old friend. You need to move on.
2007-01-16 17:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he has a girlfriend leave him alone show some respect for his girlfriend if more girls did that the world would be a nicer place
2007-01-16 17:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by corryminder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player why you want somebody that is doing or flirting with you when he is with somebody else girl you can do much better get somebody that is just for you or if not just play him back do never take him serious
2007-01-16 17:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by usher 305 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he means....how are you doing. Even if it meant more, remember its bad karma to mess with a guy who has a girl
2007-01-16 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is definitely attracted to you. Don't go further, or you will make this guy cheat on both of you.
2007-01-16 17:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by ◄Hercules► 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being polite. Dont read into that book to far- if he was interested he would have done way more.
2007-01-16 17:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. Don't be a homewrecker. Either accept that you and him can only be friends or move on. Don't be a ho.
2007-01-16 17:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria Love-Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he wanted to know how you were ...
he has a girlfriend now...and its not you..if he liked you so much he would gone with you instead of someone else...look somewhere and leave him and his girlfriend alone..after all...he had a chance to go with you but he didnt..so its his lost not yours.
2007-01-16 17:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋