I've known him for 2 yrs - He USE to be a guy who liked to play around (male whore) llol. He's changed in the last little bit after a accident that happened to him. And he said he's sick of that lifestyle.
I'm going out with him this week,and there is OBV. sexual attraction on both sides,and also we get along very well. Although this will be the first initial hanging out just the 2 of us.
I would like to see some tips on keepin him interested in me. IE: The chase. I know he likes the chase, but Im not good at playing it. I'm not saying Im gonna fall in love with the guy, but I want to have fun and see where it leads, but i'd like to know it will "hopefully" lead somewhere.
We joke alot about being so much sexual attraction between the 2 of us.But I want to take it out of that, and more into that we enjoy one anothers company.
What techniques can I use (The Chase game ones).
Any help will be appreciated.
Thanks
P.S. I'm 22 and he's 25...
2007-01-16 17:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I obviously want it to lead to sex (I am a woman with needs) but not too soon. And I need to distract myself with how to get mine and his mind off sex.. lol.
I don't want to make any mistakes if I can avoid them
2007-01-16 17:11:53 · update #1
hahaha I know, I'm 22 and asking this question. But I was in long term relationship until recently and Im not good at the dating scenery. SUCKS! haha
2007-01-16 17:13:42 · update #2
First of all DO NOT sleep with him until u guys have been seeing each other for a while, u said he used to be a player but guys can revert back. Just keep him on his toes, dont make yourself too available, see your friends as well so he has to chase you and try and catch up with u
2007-01-16 17:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
careful now. It may be dangerous if just physical attraction. At 25 he MAYBE done with that life, until he sees a hotty. Bottom line-don't put it all on the line. You want to know how to win him. Just be you. If you act the way you THINK he wants you to act, then time will eventually reveal the real you to him, and maybe he won't like it.
Does he always talk about hookin' up with you, or can you comfortably hang out and nothing happen? Don't be a puppet for him, as you will forget who YOU are, and what needs YOU have.
2007-01-17 01:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by degroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, when I read your post I thought you were a teenager. You are actually asking advise on how to play games....at 22?
If he has had lots of sex with other girls, then he is going to expect that from you. I am surprised that you aren't turned off by the fact that he is a "male whore" Gross! Better make sure that he uses a condom.
2007-01-17 01:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mother of flute player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is REALLY not a game.
You can't win him.
What are you a killer? Are you chasing after him to kill him?
This type of guy is not the one for you because he is REALLY interested in other girls/ladies and not you REALLY.
I suggest you drop him.
Get on with your own life and stop bugging and nagging me b**chy slut.
Sorry i don't REALLY like you.
2007-01-17 01:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! wel wat i feel like is wenever u too sit around, while talkin try to look into his eyes, show him ur listening bt thinking sumthing else, well wen he gets attracted over that just suddenly change the topic to sumthing else and avoid lookin his eyes, do repeat this twice or thrice untill he really gets puzzled over wat ur thinking n then do give him a nod like " do u know i find u d cutest here" or " do u know it looks i can b myself wen m with u" .. u ll b thr winning his interest 4 sure as well as u get closer... tek care best of luck.
2007-01-17 01:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by kabir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't play games with the guy.
If there's attraction, then there's attraction. Just see where it leads.
2007-01-17 01:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by White Dude X 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try just truly being adults about it & think with your head not your hormones.
Don't kiss on the 1st date
remember you want what you cant have so make him want it
2007-01-17 01:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lot can be said in the looks that you give and the smiles you flash
2007-01-17 01:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by viper8641 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋