im a nice guy so i get looked over all the time for dating. im not bf material or they just wanna be friends and it sucks cause ive never had a gf. most of my friends are in a relationship and its goin great for them. i wish i could have something like that but it doesnt happen for me. so after hearing my sob story why do girls overlook the nice guys and go for those who are complete ***** and treat them terribly?
2007-01-16 16:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not really up on the dating scene these days, but I have always considered it the guy's job to pursue me.
Try asking a girl out before you judge whether she's over-looking you.
Those bad boys chase hard and come on strong.
2007-01-16 17:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice Guys are too easy, theres nothing wrong with being a nice guy, (Ive found out) Alot of girls like the Guy to be in control of things and To be manly Nice guys can sometimes just be too nice, You Just need to find a nice girl, Probbly a shy Girl, If You like them enough and are willing to break them outta their she'll Then tey will wanna be with, Girls can be stupid and not realize that there is a great guy right in front of them, Dont take it personally im sure your a great guy, Girls want the GUy Whos In a crowd being the center of attention...Not the guy over in the corner just waiting, Its just because nice guys usually dont get noticed untill they become a really good friend......
2007-01-16 17:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because you're hanging out with the wrong girls, also, I find that a lot of the 'nice guys' aren't aggressive enough, and don't let a girl know that they are interested in them. That's why girls tend to date the bad boys- they tend to be more forward. It's a shame we haven't met yet, coz I'm looking for a 'nice guy' right now! Good Luck, I hope you find the right girl soon!! :)
2007-01-16 17:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women know that agressive men are usually good in the sack. I am not talking about long term relationships here, so don't get me wrong. Bad boys know what the good boys can only hope to learn.
And the same thing works for men. Most men would rather have a hot biach than a pretty nice girl.
2007-01-16 17:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of flute player 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have passed up the too good to be true guy a time or two because I knew that they we're keepers. I didn't want to settle down yet and from what you're saying you're marriage material. I would hate myself if I went out with you knowing that I could move on to my next guy two weeks or months later. Maybe the girls just aren't ready to settle down yet. Sorry if this doesn't help.
2007-01-16 17:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally see your point. Girls can be blind sometimes. When a great guy (like you i'm sure) is standing right in front of her, she tends to go with the guy that will use her and abuse her. It sucks I know. But here is a question for you....Why do guys over look the good girls for the whores?
2007-01-16 17:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Shay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GIRLS like asshole and WOMEN like men , you my friend will become a man and the girls that wouldnt go out with you will be stuck in a shity apartment with the asshole , be pacient because women are better anyway and they dont try to manipulate and diceve you like most girls do
P.S. dont listen to mother of a flute player shes probaly only 15 and doesnt know **** about life
2007-01-16 17:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Evan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? it's all about appearance. For me, I gotta feel that flush and think DAMN, he's a kepper. We don't really look deeply into a guy at first. Some women are so messed up, they will stay with a jerk for as long as they can just because he's hot! Sorry!
2007-01-16 17:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by pamela s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not interested in nice guys until they have been burnt by a bastard. Makes us realise what we really want, you know, be treated with respect etc.
So are you saying that all your friends are complete *****?
Most girls are looking for excitment...are you exciting?
2007-01-16 17:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do guys only go for the stupid girls?! it goes both ways. I don't mean to burst your little happiness bubble. Someday a girl will come along and notice you for the person you are and appreciate that. until then, get involved in the community, be social, have fun, and don't worry about it! :)
2007-01-16 17:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋