I love my boybriend so much but there may be this one problem!!!! I am a christian and my boyfriend does not even believe in God. He says that he hates him and that there is no God. He does not want to change this in any way and says he allready knows enough about God. I dont know what to do because I was raised to marry another christian and thats what i want to do. But he doesnt want to change? Is it still possible in some way for him to or what?
2007-01-16 16:48:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant change him, he'll change if he wants..... but if your a christian then you know god doesnt want you to push your religion on others.... you can be with it, it will be very hard though... just make sure you keep your faith and dont shove it down his throat...good luck
2007-01-16 17:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by hockeygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible with lots of prayer, but for a Christian to date a non-believer is TOUGH! I've read this book "Arms of Love" about a non-believer turned believer and it's very inspiring! Anyway, depending on how old or young you are, I would just take this relationship lightly until you see positive changes. Usually, if a guy is really into a girl, he changes for her, not the other way around. So until then, keep praying but keep your options open. Don't waste all your hope on one guy when there are many other choices out there, and I guarantee you will meet more!
2007-01-16 16:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, you can't change your boyfriend. Even if he says he is a Christian (which he won't), you have to know he will be lying, and lying to God! OMG! I wouldn't press the issue with him anymore. If it is a big deal, then you should move on from him. This is why you date: so you can get to know the person better and see if you are compatiable.
2007-01-16 16:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him Katee..there is no way we can force the bf to go to church and start believing in Jesus..but God Himself can change human heart. you can keep asking him (but no force) to pray/go to church together..but dont give up praying for his soul.
God bless you
2007-01-16 17:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl he doesn't deserve to be with u and anybody that doesn't believe in god needs to be by theirselves anyway, u should just let him go because you cant and wont change his beliefs
2007-01-16 17:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Deyonne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋