I am going to 28 years old and just failed in second relationship. I feel very bad to be single and start to jealous ppl surrounded me with couple or going to marry.
Friends surrounded me getting marry and born baby recently. I would very much like to share happiness with them but at the same time, i feel bad on myself.
This feeling bothering so much and consequently made me loose confidence...
2007-01-16 16:33:30 · 18 answers · asked by Blur Gal... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang in there
God will help you find someone
2007-01-16 16:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty normal to feel a lack of confidence after any type of failure, whether it's a job or a relationship. Go out and have a good time, don't worry about getting into another relationship right away. Things usually happen when you're not expecting them. Don't be envious of other people, count your own blessings and ask if you'd give up those blessings for what those other people have. Remember, the grass is always greener on the other side.
2007-01-16 16:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by hop0409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get down on yourself. People enter and exit our lives all the time. Another person will come into your life. You shouldn't judge your life with your friends life. The grass isn't always greener on the other side; your friends might be having difficulty. Heck, they may even wish they were single like you. I wouldn't rush into a relationship right away until you are happy being alone. There is no way you can love someone else if you can't love yourself. Good Luck with your future relationships!
2007-01-16 16:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the song goes, Love is Never on Time. Its really better that the relationship fail NOW rather than after being married with kids. Thats the whole point of dating. Finding out if the person youre interested in is compatible with you. Learn this following four letter word when a relationship fails - NEXT!
2007-01-16 16:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your young, 28, its OK not to be in a serious relationship. There is so much out there that you haven't seen yet there is the perfect someone out there and you need to let life take you where it pleases and love will come. Live life to the fullest and everything will turn out alright. Its better to wait for the right one then end up marrying someone you don't truly love and divorce them a year later. Don't worry
2007-01-16 16:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one is to get to the root of the problem. Actually that is #2. #1 is to be honest with yourself and not blame the other for what may have been your fault. just be honest with yourself or when you finish running from your issues, your issues are still standing right next to you.
I know the feeling, but am able to move on cause if my fault or not, I get to the real reason for the breakups and fix it. If me, I fix me, If her, I give her the benefit of sharing what bugged me so she has a chance to fix herself. If not-her friends will surround her by getting married and having born babies recently!
2007-01-16 16:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by degroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! I'm so sorry to hear that but you know what relationships are the way you learn. And for your next relationship your going to be able to take everything you've learned from the past and input the good things to the next one. Relationships make you strong mentally and emotionally and even tho they hurt more you'll always be able to look back and say at least i tried. But if you really want to date someone I'm single lol (I'm Not Kidding Too)
Good Luck in all the choices you make!
Betty
2007-01-16 16:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel so bad right now. Being alone can be hard and depressing, but don't give up. Try to be optimistic and hopeful. Circumstances in life change all the time, tomorrow, or someday soon, something great may happen to you, you never know!
2007-01-16 16:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you still have time, i have been having the same up and downs as yours but I'm 47 and the degree of the disappointments are much greater and its bothering me a lot, so what I'm trying to tell you, is, stay positive and you eventually find your mate.
2007-01-16 16:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that bitter feeling when all your friends are doing great in their relationships.shouldn't feel bad being single at 28, this generation that's young. think: it's the best opportunity to love yourself a bit more this time, discover your talents and find more friends.
But don't give up! it's just a phase, and it's only temporary.
2007-01-16 16:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Beanie.beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the saying "Sometimes we try to keep together what God himself is trying to tear apart"? Well, it may hurt now, but obiviously you weren't meant to be with your exs. Just think of them as little stepping stones to get to the one person you are destined to spend the rest of your life with. As for the confidence issue, remember confidence is key and is one of the most important characteristics that can help you to succeed.
2007-01-16 16:47:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋