i'm migrating and my boyfriend dsnt want to let go i want to breakup now 2 avoid the hurt bt he dsnt wt 2 do??

Question

he says he's coming there after his degree in 3 years!!! he says i can see other people... we have been goin out less than a month but we'v got really close he says he'l wait 4 me... i want to break up now to avoid the unnecessary hurt cos the longer v hold on the harder it's goin 2 get 2 let go but he says it's goin 2 hurt either way so v should try and make the best of it... WHAT DA HELL DO I DO???

Answer 1

bloodyJ..you should find out what do you really want...and what does he want as well. Looks like that he like you allright..but i dont feel so good about:''you can see other people''.
You should know what does he wants too..and tell him:if we both really want to be comitted w each other, we have to make e raltionship exclusive. I will wait for you if you wait fot me too''

i wish you happines...

Answer 2

In 3 years he might not be there...a whole month doesn't mean as much as you think or he thinks it does. A lot can and will happen in 3 or 4 years. Make a nice clean break for the right reasons....he's a big boy, he'll get over it. He is all involved now but the possessive thing is getting to be too much----he needs to back off and let you do what YOU want to do. Lessen the amount of contact---keep busy on your own, just wish him luck in school and move on to your new place. Good luck to you.