Should I let My bf have friends that are Girls, and let him go hang out with them, should I be more careful?

Answer 1

I would say no because if he goes out and hangs with other girls when you are not around, who knows if one of them will try to make a move on him. The best advice I've gotten from my aunt was and I quote" Every woman has got to leave when I leave." Especially when your man is around because women are very sneaky. It's not a matter of being insecure, it's a matter of fighting of what is yours not anyone else's. Girl, you better stand your ground because I'm pretty sure he wouldn't want to hang with guys and stuff. But no that's not a good idea so you need to be very careful!!

Answer 2

You can't tell him how to live his life. Two quick stories: 1) I was dating this guy last year. He decided he wanted to control my life and tell me I could not have male friends. I've ALWAYS had more mail friends than females. In conclusion, I broke up with him b/c of this issue amongst others. 2) My current bf has a female roommate. Actually had 2 at one point. I do not like it, but I deal with it.
Again, you can't tell him how to live his life. Just have trust in him and be friends with his friends. Think about if the situation were reversed and he was telling you how to live. You would not want him telling you you could not have male friends would you?

Answer 3

You know i have no problem with my b/f having girlfriends and he can go hang with them if he wants...If you trust him it shouldn't matter and besides if he messes around....He wasn't worth it and theres more men out there..

Answer 4

well if you tell him no... then he will more than likely break up with you. he is ONLY your boyfriend, doesn't mean you can tell him what he can and can't do...yet.

just tell him that it bothers you. if he cares then he will either quit or do it less.

Answer 5

u should have 'care'-free attitude towards him

Answer 6

i wouldnt worry about it