My girlfriend has been diagnosed with ADD. How can I help her deal with this?

Answer 1

Let her know that it's really not that big a deal. It's not like a disease or anything, and it's not a major disability. It' just means that you have some trouble paying attention for long periods of time. I was diagnosed as ADD as a kid, and I'm an adult now (who still has it) and my life is great. Don't worry too much about it.

Answer 2

Be patient with her! It's not a life threaten problem, however, it effects every aspect of life. I have add also and sometimes i'm off in 50 different directions but as long as i stay on my meds and the people around me understand then things will work out. I'm 45 yrs old and have been dealing with for a long tome. Do some research and completly understand what ADD is and TRUST me she will be okay.
Here's some info for you:add & adhd are treated almost the same check out webmd

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Odds are, your first response on hearing you might have adult ADHD was, "It's a kids' problem, isn't it?"

The fact is that at least half of children with ADHD -- attention deficit hyperactivity disorder -- continue to have problems as adults. If you do indeed have adult ADHD, you're one of them. But you're not alone. Some 4% of U.S. adults are in the same boat.

ADHD begins in childhood. At least some symptoms always appear by age 7. You've made it this far. Clearly you've been coping with your symptoms. Maybe you even use them to your advantage. But the fact that you're getting diagnosed with adult ADHD now means that you need help.

And help is available.

Several clinical trials show that many of the stimulant drugs that help children with ADHD may also help those with adult ADHD. Particularly helpful may be the longer-lasting formulations of these medications, which are better suited to adult lifestyles. As of this writing, the only FDA-approved drug for adult ADHD is the nonstimulant Strattera. The FDA has not yet approved stimulant drugs such as Ritalin for adult ADHD, although doctors can prescribe them if they choose. However, medication alone isn't the whole treatment for adult ADHD.

It's likely you'll also need behavioral and emotional support for your adult ADHD. It's wise to seek the help of a psychologist or psychiatrist. Why is this so important? About three out of four adults with ADHD also suffer from other problems. These include depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, alcohol and substance abuse, and learning disabilities. It's unlikely that treatment for any of these problems will succeed unless ADHD is identified and treated as well. And just treating adult ADHD probably won't make other disorders go away.

By getting a diagnosis of adult ADHD, you've taken an important first step. Many adults with ADHD lead fulfilling lives. You can be one of them.

Yours in health,
Daniel J. DeNoon

Answer 3

I too was recently diagnosed with it, but I knew something was up all along. She should be treated for it with adderall, it will have amazing results for her. I take it, and I can't imagine how I functioned without it!