ive been seeing a guy for the past 3 months.....at the start i didnt even like him but he did the chasing and now i feel as if i'm doing all the work...he told me he likes me after a month, then told me he was gradually liking me more and was enjoying my company more too... at the start we would message each other everyday but just lately he hasn't messaged me at all.. he expects me to message him all the time...but i want him to make an effort... he makes an effort when he knows that i'm thinking about leaving our soo called relationship....i saw him 3 days ago...he drove 1 hour to see me.... but havent heard from him since....we have slept together and his made it very clear that his not in it for the sex.... but should i give the boy some space for him to think about me???? should i make the first move or should i hold out and make him messgae first????
2007-01-16 16:21:11 · 2 answers · asked by single_yellow_female 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him come to you. A guy who is truly in love with a girl will find every opportunity and make every effort to be with her, plain and simple. Don't make any more moves. Kick back and put the ball back in his court. If he doesn't come forward, then it's high time to move on (and next time, think twice before sharing a bed with someone you're not married to).
2007-01-16 16:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave it along, it about the chase, when he was chaseing you it was all good. but now that he caught you it is
diffent, and since it only been 3 months, time to take it slow
and see how it goes, if he really want to be with you he will
do the right things.but if not then move, but it also could be
that he gotten what he wanted all the long.
2007-01-16 16:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋