2007-01-16 16:16:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have sex if you really don't want to. If your boyfriend really loves you, I'm sure he'll respect your decision.
2007-01-16 16:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by bump 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have sex with him. If he loves you he will respect your wishes not to. My boyfriend respects me in that way. I told him I wanted to wait until we're married and he won't let us go that far.
Also, if you don't know how to, then you probably aren't old enough to be doing that anyway. Don't give up your virginity over a boy you might not even marry. You may love him, but he may not love you. Trust me, on down the road if it didn't work out with the two of you, you may find "the one" and you would have wished you'd saved it for him. My boyfriend had sex with another girl and he said he wished I was his first instead.
Edit: Ugh, this whole him asking you for sex is bugging me. This is obviously the only reason he's with you! This should be a red flag! Think things through!
2007-01-17 00:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure the answer is NO--I am not saying that as an adult or a mom--but my girl is 17 and I had her at 17 and you girls need to realize that virginity is special--you can only give it up once. My daughter asked to be put on the pill because she thought she was ready for a bfriend of 2 years--we have a great relationship so I got her on it--she was devastated as --she never slept with him as she found out he was seeing someone else. Guys are guys at 16, 17, 18 19, 20+ they need sex and will use you--not even meaning to hurt you--but will. You also need to know that you won't find any pleasure in it until you are older-it will be quick and done--just wait til you are older and no pressure--when YOU are ready--it will be worth the wait.
2007-01-17 00:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont really know what u mean by u don't know how, but maybe u mean u don't know how to satisfy him and if thats the case it's probably because your nervous but all u have to do is let loose act like ur a actress in a sexy scene with the man u dream of and get sassy and sentual take control, get wild and crazy push him on the bed and show him ur wild side, "if it helps u out any u should think of a movie u seen before when there was a sex scene that almost made u have to change ur panties and just act like the actress who stars in it, u can even imagine that ur a exotic porn star
2007-01-17 01:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Deyonne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT HAVE SEX UNLESS HE IS YOUR HUSBAND! Im sure you wouldnt want to go through the whole disease or pregnancy stage cuz it just may happen if you do. say no because you feel uncomfortable with it and if he is the one for you he will understand. (it would be better then saying you dont know how to becuz that would be really more awkward)
2007-01-17 00:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how to have sex, or you don't know how to go through with having sex?
Why does it seem like you are just posting this just to see what answers you may get?....
Either way i feel sorry for you.
2007-01-17 00:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow of a girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a friend once told me don't do it with ANYONE you can't see yourself spending the REST of your life with. It makes you get your priorities in order and the decision a little easier. And if you have any Religious beliefs put THAT first. (don't do anything you WILL regret later)
2007-01-17 00:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you dont know how to do it and he can help you. You could start off by taking all your clothes off and make out with him then you lay in bed and spread your legs then have him go on top of you. Thats just a start.
2007-01-17 00:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shut up "Common Sense". Don't listen to him. You don't need to be submissive at all. It takes two people to make love. Don't do it at all if you are not ready! I think if you're asking how to do it then you are not ready. I would wait unitl your older. Trust me.
2007-01-17 00:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Psychgirl35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol! u don't know how to?! your asking online if you should have sex with your boyfriend? whats wrong with you?
2007-01-17 11:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tracey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋