Why? Did you, did it work out?
2007-01-16 16:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think every woman has felt pressured at some point in time, they're lying if they say they havent. There could be a lot of reasons why you feel this way, but don't give it up. If it's a guy that is making you feel this way, he'll respect anything you say if he really loves you. Dont give it up on the first date because 9x out of 10 the guy wont respect you, no matter what he says! Just take it easy and stick to dating guys that are interested in you and now what you can do for them. I have given it up on the first date and it has worked out but, i felt terrible afterwards. You're on pins and needles wondering if you'll ever hear from the guy again or what he feels about you. DONT DO IT. just wait and be patient.
2007-01-16 16:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To "China Doll" - Your display picture contradicts exactly what you wrote..
Ive never felt pressured to Give It Up on the first date and think anyone (male or female) who IS pressured is either 1) going out with the wrong person or 2) gives too much emphasis on sex rather than the relationship or getting to konw the person. Noone should ever feel pressured it should be something you do for love and that youre both mutual about, not something that happens then you realise you dont know the persons last name because its only been the first date. Always make sure you get to konwt he person first - might stop so many teenage moms these days or abortions
I have a bf now and on our first date (we knew each other months and months before hand as best friends) we wanted to have sex but knew we should wait till we get used to being gf/bf isntead of mates.
2007-01-16 16:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a girl feels pressured to "give it up on the first date," she is on a date with the wrong guy.
2007-01-16 16:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I usually don't date guys like that. And if I ever did feel like there was pressure then I would just not go on another date. I feel pressure usually to kiss them. Not from them but more from me. Like I really want to know if they are a good kisser. And it bugs me not knowing. but i haven't always kissed on the first date. it depends on the guy. i try to save the kiss for a few later dates.
2007-01-16 16:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls feel pressured should leave that date along. Normally this type of pressere never works out.
2007-01-16 16:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i never pressure women on the first date
2007-01-16 16:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope im not pressured, only weak women would give in and give it up on the first date, if you give it up on the first day, you lose the beauty of the chase, if you give in so easily, where is your dignity and view of self worth, you dont even know the man that well why would i do that to myself, i view myself more precious than that!
2007-01-16 16:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but I just want to let all the girls reading this know that they should always give it up on the first date.
2007-01-16 16:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by WordsSayThings 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Shoot! My three daughters laugh at guys who even think of it on the first date! As for me, back then no one dared to think about it on the 10th date back then.
2007-01-16 16:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never "gave it up" on the first date. That is not me. That is not the way I was raised.
2007-01-16 16:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by melanie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋